That’s good to hear. 
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My deepest condolences.
The pain of this life has ceased for her.
Sending healing energy to you and your family.
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Thank You, @Jimmie. 
At the very least, that’s a plus, perhaps even a huge plus…
At least for her.
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Yes. At this current time, all she does is confusion. Not in pain or anything, just confusion. And this is extremely normal. It usually takes a few months to really grasp the new environment.
Lot will eventually come back, but through a much lighter process, as the karmas from her previous life, to which she is no longer attached, are completely burned. So the degree will be different, of course. Now, in that process, only Yama itself can judge how she will be in her next life. But trust me, she learned enough from that pain and suffering. And that lesson is learned. But if, in her life, she wished to be healthy and well, then there might be chances of her reincarnating back in a healthy body, etc. But this process takes a long time. I mean, it can take hundreds of years, unless she is ready to cross over. It can be as quick as that. A delaying in cross over process can be because of the attachment. From people usually mourning it for years
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I will try to not mourn her for years, and let her continue her journey unburdened.
Using fields and some techniques, and having other dear souls help me, plus keeping my mind oriented on the future, and choosing to keep my energy higher, through work, Spirituality and self improvement and entertainment too, I will heal from this great pain too…
Her wish was for me to have my own house and probably a family too…
Above all, to be healthy.
Well, to have a good life, regardless of my choices.
But first things first, I need to process this days completely, with all the implications, then I will set my focus on my future…
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Just keep reminding her by saying this
( go back to the light. And follow your guardian) that will remind her. That she no longer here. In this psychical plane. And eventually if she is ready. She will cross over
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I’ve just heard the news; I’m sorry for your loss. May she go in peace.
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@RomeMaryland, Thank You, Brother.
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Hey there brother. I just seen this now. I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I’m sending all my servitors and called upon my angels to guide, protect, and help her soul to get her to where she is going. And to console her. I understand how you must feel right now, and I know it’s hard… I have had close childhood friends die, close family die when I was younger… And it’s hard, I won’t lie and say it’s easy initially. Only thing that can heal you is time. That I know 100% from experience. It’s hard to do now, but after enough time has passed, you will be able to think back to all the great times you’ve had with her. All those times she had uplifted you, made you smile and laugh, was there for you, and all the positive things you remember bout her. They hurt now, but I promise you with time, you will be able to think of all these times and they will bring you happiness. Like she is still there with you physically.
And trust what Imogen is saying is true, about your mom being there with you right now. (She made me a believer as she connected me with my Uncle and Bianka. I even did a test as well. There were only details they could have known so I am 1000% sure it was them.) She is there with you and feels all you are feeling right now. Can hear everything you tell her. So right now, you make sure you connect to her (by thinkin of her, as you’ll summon her like that) and then call out her name… And you tell her all you feel bout her leaving. Everything you wanted to tell her while she was still here, tell her now. She’ll hear it. Let it all out. Please do not hold anything in. It’s very important at this stage that you properly grieve.
It’s also very important to know also, that this is not your fault. Don’t blame yourself. You are only human. You did what you can. All of us did. I was sending her heart fields each day (as I am sure others had too), so it’s not because of the lack of heart fields. There were too many problems, and it was cumulative. It was out of our control bro. But you were there for her all the times you were able to be, while she was still conscious.
You won’t go through this alone bro. We’ll be here for you when you need to talk. To vent and etc. Love ya bro
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Love You Brother.
Thank You for Everything.
That text you wrote made me emotional.
I’m gonna follow your advice and try to tell anything I have to tell her…
Although I think I’ll do it tomorrow, since I already cried way too much today - however, I think I already told her most things already, at least the essence, as I spoke with her over 1-2 hours today…
It was painful, it is so painful speaking to someone dear and not seeing them, not hearing them…
This day was a Paradox - it was bareable, in the sense that I thought I’m was gonna lose my mind, and somehow I didn’t, yet it was like pain after pain after pain…
Many times, many rows of pain…
That’s what it was like, especially the first half of today, although it’s still not easy…
And I didn’t even attend her wake, as I feared that I might have a stroke or lose my mind…
My brother took care of everything, alongside his family.
Tomorrow I’ll see her, but not too many hours, then at the funeral…
Although, I don’t even know…
Anyway, I told my nephew, who I told you about, that all the people there, all the gathering, all those rituals, also, what they think about me, all of those don’t mean much to me.
When she was alive, I was there, they were not, no neighbors, no relatives…
And if im not there now it’s because I care too much…
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My condolences to U , your family and whoever loved and cared for her.
She is out of her misery.
Be open to her visiting you, u may see her out of the corner of your eye, sense her energy or smell her scent < this one happened to me yesterday, I suddenly smelled my moms scent and a second before that felt warmth and a vibration around my heart/chest area. I started crying.
Let your sorrow out in safe spaces. Dont hold it in.
Be kind to yourself and those grieving, and let them grieve at their own pace.
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Thank You, @SilverZuzu.
That is both beautiful and sad.
Also, May Your Mom Be Blessed, Abundantly, Wherever She Is,
As well as You, SilverZuzu.
In a way I would like to see her, yet depending on circumstances (when, where, how) Idk if I’m not going to be scared…
I saw my aunt s ghost, after she died, she appeared over my mom, as in staying exactly where my mom was staying.
I only saw her for a few seconds, the she vanished.
Giving me signs or appearing in my dreams might be better for me,
Although considering that I already miss her,
Maybe it would be a blessing to somehow feel her presence…
However, all at their right time.
I will learn, with time to expand my consciousness and I will be able to better communicate with all my dear ones who are gone from the physical plane (my mom, my dad, my grandparents - I didn’t grew up with them, my uncles, aunts, I also have a brother who died, my mom’s first child, although he might have reincarnated, maybe my bro or me, who knows,…),
But I would like to do things at a slower pace, to be able to digest all the new perceptions, experiences, upgrades, etc.
I have done this quite strongly today…
Tbh, I felt my head and nerves like exploding at times, my heart wasn’t great either, etc., thus I need to mourn, to release my grief, pain, attachment, love, etc., yet I Aldo need to pay attention to my body…
I was rude in the previous comment, but I still think that anyone, relative or neighbor would have no right to judge me, for misding this evening /night, from the wake…
Also, yes, from relatives to neighbors and other folks who knew her, sometimes people don’t uphold communication, they may cut social ties, yet still love a person…
So, in the end, I should be careful when judging others…
Tbh, I was moved how some relatives started caring about her once thry saw her, in the last couple weeks or so…
Thry brought her money, food, they helped clean the house, etc.
Well, that doesn’t change years of neglect, but it is what it is…
At the very least, I saw some relatives being moved by my mom’s suffering and they showed compassion, although in the last hour or even minute, but still, they showed their compassion…
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U take good care of yourself.
Make sure u eat relatively healthy at regular intervals and drink enough fluids.
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Thank You for the Advice.
Today I ate less than what I should have, but it’s expected, plus, for a while I ate less, not because I wanted, and also reduced my fluids intake…
I know that I have to improve things, starting with drinking more water, plus, being vegetarian, I need to reintroduce my protein supplements too…
I will improve all of these.
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Good. Dont let it slide. Its no time to be fasting.
We still live here in the physical and we need to take care of our body.
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Before the coma, and before she wasn’t herself, my mom asked me if I eat enough…
She was almost gone, yet her caring was still tremendous…
Still thinking about my well being, even then…
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You are right.
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Of course.
She is your mother , (who is a good mother) and deeply cares about u, wherever she is and in whatever shape and form she is in. That wont change.
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Gotta go.
Thank You for these beautiful replies.
I Wish You and Everyone a Good Night. 
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I just learned this sad news…my condolences.
My thoughts are with you, your family, and loved ones 
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