Yooo, yes, she asked that sometimes…
Nope, it’s creepy…
At least not now.
Ill make some tea tomorrow.
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The problem with requests is I do her tea, then what, cook?
…
Anyway, there is no noise now.
Hopefully things will stay silent.
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Thats what she wants atm. She just sitting there. Looks like kitchen table to me. No you dont need to cook. She didnt ask for that
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Oh, God.
Really, tea?
Is it absolutly necessary?
What does she say?
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What if I imagine that I give her tea?
I just did that.
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I’m sorry for your loss.
I hope your brother and you can come
through this painful moment.
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Thank You. 
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i have only opened the forum now, after many days, and read the thread, i am so sorry for your loss and for all the sufference and grief that took place. I have been through this with my parents and each time, beyond the sufference and grief, those were such spiritual experiences for me.
You are hurt and feeling alone now, but, as people said above, she is not suffering anymore now. This is the strongest reason for which you should try to relax and just aim to do what is best for her now, if you really want to help her.
The following 40 days after death are extremely important for a soul that shed its material shell, these days are recognised in various cultures, including in orthodox and catholic christianity (cause you’re in Romania), and also in India and Tibet. A very detailed book is the Tibetan Bardo Thodol, that directs how a departed person can navigate the illusory astral realms to avoid reincarnating in lower worlds, and be able to access higher realms, and even Liberation, moksha.
The book has to be read for the person , but the terms and specificities may not be familiar to non Tibetan people, so , to put it very briefly, the astral landscapes in which she will be, will change each day, and at certain moments there will appear certain lights of different colors and intensities, that can attract her, and she has to make the best choices.
The best way in which you can help her, as a non Tibetan, is to repeat to her, in these 40 days, to go towards the brightest light of all the lights she can see, at every moment (the brightest lights, who guide her to the highest realms and beings, can be seen just as a flash by little “evolved” people (sorry, i’m not a native English speaker) and for longer times by more “evolved” souls. Seeing her picture, and from the descriptions that you made, she must be so angelic and with such a good heart, so she must have good chances to see and be attracted by the lights of the best options for paths and destinations.
The method in Bardo Thodol is not random nor wishful thinking, but was made by spiritual masters who were there and could travel in those realms and help people.
So the next best thing is to try to transmit to her daily (your profound link with her will make this possible, no need to worry about technique), to go to THE BRIGHTEST light that she sees, at any time (as oposed to other dim lights), every day, for 40 days, as often as you consider.
And the second great aid for her in these 40 days is to light candles for her, specifying her name, and asking angels to help her and guide her. Even one candle per day, it’s still good. Best are those candles that last for 3-4 hours or even more, because the energy and light will “illuminate her path” more.
When my father died, a woman in the church told me to buy a spiraled candle and light it a little every day for 40 days, so these things are known in the Orthodox church too.
There are even rituals with many candles that “burn the karma” of the departed person (in fact raising her vibration), so she can navigate better and make the right choices without having to be scared, lonely , encounter non friendly entities or stick to the Earth and their loved ones and places as a ghost.
Now she has her own way to “go”, and the best thing you can do for her now is to help her raise her vibration, from illness and sufference to serenity and the excitement of the new worlds (which can be paradise-like, full of beauty and light and lovely people).
In the astral world all is instant and it functions according to the resonance law, so you have to help her feel happy and uplifted in order for her to resonate with light, love, beauty, happiness and the world around her to reflect that.
And you can do this through these two methods.
Don’t talk too much with her, don’t cry, don’t explain, don’t try to keep her from the most important journey of her life /lives, just tell her that you will meet again, and she is free now and she can fly and she has to go to the brightest light she sees .
And if she ever asks you for a tea, (because her mind is still linked to the humanly routines), make her a tea, she deserves it.
And tell her she is cured and free 
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Thank You.
I’ll make her some tea in the morning,
Since I’m scared to do it now, tbh.
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Update:
I barely slept, if at all and today is the burial…
Gonna try to sleep a little bit.
Woke up with inflammation in the throat, currently listening to HGF…
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You don’t need to be scared though. First, that’s your mom. And second, since she’s in that realm, she becomes the protector herself against the odds. The same thing goes for animals like dogs/cats. Once they pass away, if your bones with them is strong they become one within that circle of your energetic system, as protectors. So, in a sense, if you need help regarding a psychic attack, your mom will be the one who sees and protects you
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Thank You, Imogen.
I’m still at the beginning of that phase, so unfortunately I’m still scared due to not being used (for many years now) with spiritual activity…
I’ll talk with You later.
Got to sleep a little bit…
Thank You for Everything.
And I Thank Everyone.
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I’m going to the cemetery immediately…
Oh, man, this is too painful…
The burial of my mom.
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I’m sending you a hug and my support. 
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Thank You, @Jessica-Azrael and Thank You, Everyone, for Your Needed and Beautiful Support, Aid, Fields, Prayers, Love.
It is done.
My mom’s Earthly/bodily/incarnate Ed journey has ended.
She will continue her journey, according to her will (hopefully), and we will continue ours.
TY, Ana, for being my mom.
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Hey hope you doing alright though. Try to eat well.
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I am. Thank You.
Gonna pm You if you don’t mind.
Sorry for your loss, Allah yarhamha
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Thank You, My Friend.
I thank You for all the good you did for us.
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Sammy, if it’s OK with You, if we can have the webinar, I would like to suggest the following:
Next week, any day, anywhere between 1 P. M. To 10 P. M, Eastern European Time (EET or Bucharest time, for me, they are the same), which is equivalent to 6 a. M. To 3 P. M. Eastern Standard Time (EST); at least that’s OK for me.
The general theme is the afterlife, as suggested by Thomas, and, if it’s OK, we can send some guidance and love to my mom.
Also, I don’t mind anyone asking any questions regarding the afterlife, experiences with it (like nde or anything personal or heard or read/watched from somewhere), spiritual perspectives, etc…
If it’s OK, if You agree, Sammy, you are obviously the moderator, so it’s up to you how the webinar will be organized, what topics will be discussed, etc.
Thank You.
Sammy, In case it can’t be done next week, any other week is alright; also, this is just a suggestion, so it’s OK on my part, whenever You can organize it, and it’s obviously your choice the selection of themes/subjects, and other things.
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