Let me share the most wonderful insight about this issue: the panacea for it lies in understanding the interplay between software and hardware.
In this analogy, software refers to our inner programming—beliefs, traumas, emotions, needs, weaknesses, abilities, and talents—shaped by culture, parents, career, environment, personal history, successes, failures, and perceived shortcomings. Hardware, on the other hand, encompasses how we respond, communicate, and behave.
Most people share common needs, desires, and shortcomings. While this may seem complicated, it is surprisingly easy to grasp.
I encourage you to read some books on human psychology. Over time, you will gain a deeper understanding of human behavior and discover what leads to these patterns, including your own faults.
With this knowledge, you can wield power over human interactions—transforming a stranger into a beloved friend, a friend into a foe, or even a foe into a friend at your discretion.
Additionally, this understanding will protect you from exploitation and may even lead you to love humanity unconditionally.
How you choose to use this knowledge is entirely up to you—whether for good or ill—I have no preference. Ultimately, you will find peace with others.
Remember, power is power (Game of Thrones).
Inherently not good or bad entirely depends on your intentions…