Children's nightmares

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#22

Yes.

Calm responses only. Teach her self love and how to respond to bullies.

Give her her sense of power by giving her tools, not responding in fear and supporting that there is something awry by doing hair removal fields, etc.

Calm down, mama. It’s evident you love and care for your child deeply and don’t want her suffering at school. She’s young, and kids say harsh things to each other. It’s better that you begin to build her self esteem than to try to remove anything that people can attack her with.

Outside of children, adults who bully don’t actually have an issue with the body hair they point out. If it’s not body hair, it’s your eye color. If it’s not your eye color, it’s your kindness. It’s not about her.

Help her grow so she realizes that and has healthy self esteem. :yellow_heart: this is a good test for your self esteem too, knowing you’re perfect as you are created and teaching that to your kin. :heartpulse: It’s not about her. Bullying is about a feeling the person doing the bullying is experiencing.

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#23

Thanks for adding more on this topic

I would like to add more

I know you have cure to hair removal and teeth insecurity but if you’ll be always solution oriented than in long term your daughter will not going accept things the way they are. She will mimic the way you behave so the most important thing you should do with her is make her accept herself there is nothing wrong with her she is the way she is. No one have rights to judge her not even you have the rights to judge her. Just because different people have different beliefs doesn’t mean that she need to fullfill that beliefs to be acceptable and loved. And if so no one accept her you should complety overwhelmingly accept her and make her believe that she don’t need approval from others to be loved she can love herself. And if you think she must remove her facial hair or get braces change your mindset and beliefs first.

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#24

In regards to the nightmares, we always have the superior control over our own minds and environment. No entity can overpower unless we are made to feel vulnerable.

To get her to regain control over her fears, psychologist Carl Jung would recommend her to confront whatever bad force is present in her dreams. You can console her by telling her she is stronger than the monster (if she thinks there is a monster).

also, you can put on the ‘Archangel Michael’ from blessed angels album and the ‘Sword of St Micheals’, both will protect her. you can tell your daughter she is protected

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#25

100% agree… I’ve been focusing on her being happy with her.

And lol at calm mama … I was bullied, and think it’s something most of us experience in one form or another, for whatever reason like you stated above… and I think thats why it bothers me, because it could be any reason at all.

Thank you.