Disputes Thread

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#136

I’ve said my piece. This isn’t between you and me. It’s between you and him. I’ve opened the floor to others to voice your opinion. If he is as condescending to others as you say he is, others will say so.

You haven’t proved anything to me yet and you are very hellbent on your mission to take him down or whatever it is. But I’ll allow this dispute to last til 12 PM EST tomorrow. And then, I close i and allow for other discussions. Having these personal disputes drag out will drag the community down. There needs to be time limits.

Really not the kind of thing I want to be doing at all right now whule I’m trying to get work done but man, it’s the price of trying to be a fair person. Ya’ll have no idea how difficult it is to be this way rather than authoritative. Life would be so easy.

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#137

I get ur approach to this, but it’s just hard to count on the fact that everyone will be this mature in receiving “help” from someone. some of us are truly hurting, and I don’t think we all can bare that type of response from people.

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#138

I’m not about to sit on here all day and go back and forth either, I’m just putting it out there. none of us really have the time, but those that agree with me will know and maybe speak up maybe not. I’m pretty much done talking about it myself. at least others may know what I’m talking about in the future if they see the same thing I’m saying and who knows if this will come up again.

it’s not that serious especially when it comes to my frustrations with him, but it is important for the entire community to again know and be aware of how u may be coming off to others. so if that’s all we get from this then that is fine.

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#139

There is no undertone as he is not talking, its written language your projecting something on the way he writes out of your own experience from how i look at it(something everybody does btw.)

Imo he is very helpful and he never says anything is your fault per say but without taking responsibility for four life change is going to be very hard.

I would say one is not a fault on how you where conditioned but you could call it your “fault” as soon as you reach certain extent of selfreflection/mindfulness/consciousness if you decided keep yourself that way.

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#140

Is this what a righteous person would do though? Do you really believe you are doing the right thing?

You are saying this man is coming from a very unempathetic place but aren’t you doing the same? You are disregarding him and judging his whole persona. Putting him down across thr whole forum. Wouldn’t the more mature way to handle this is suggest perhaps

'Hey wellbeing, I appreciate all the help you are providing for the forum. But I sometimes think that the way you phrase things come off as condescending. I know you probably don’t intend on that but your posts seem very matter of fact and that can be offputting sometimes.

It’d be nice if you were a bit more suggestive or empathetic with your posts. Again, I know you probably don’t mean wrong with your posts but it’s just the way they come off sometimes. Thanks again for all the help bro.’

Or something like that. But you literally set off your whole beef with him by saying his posts make you want to vomit. So you know what? Nah. This tirade isn’t something I’m just gonna let rock in this forum. You started it with a lowly personal attack and want to act all righteous like you are doing this forum a favor.

You are not. Because that kind of behavior isn’t welcome here. Attacking people on a personal level isn’t the way we resolve anything or try to stick up for people. It never resolves things. And I don’t want you to did to set off an example as to what people can just start doing in the forum.

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#141

Also this is a public forum and he is not being rude in the general consensus so maybe you are simply taking it the wrong way im not here to hate just to state what i feel.

This guy takes the time to meticulously answer questions in very helpful way if you are receptive to what he is saying and dont block it because of a personal sense of being attacked or being otherwise triggered.

I would not have the patience or energy to do that.

I even find it very giving that he takes his time to do that!

Even if he was condescending, which he is not, what he wrote if taken seriously is still great and helpful advice.

Peace im out.

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#142

Seems like i am not entirely out yes @SammyG its not the way just because you hurt it doesn’t give justification to do the same we have many empathetic and mindful members here who try to help and i do really appreciate how much work you put in on this forum and your way of really going deep to understand and then again reflect and chose to express yourself as unbiased as possible, as understanding as possible, big up to you truly an inspiration !!!

Much Love to you samy and everyone on this forum!

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#143

I hate to be a dick, but this group has several members who are incarnated starseeds, angels, and gods. If the posts never triggered anyone, the wise ones would just be silent, and real and important messages would not be passed along.

That’s really everyone, probably, but some are more in tune and others are more playing this game for the side quests.

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#144

The truth tends to hurt the ego. You either decide to see something for what it is or become defensive toward it. I remember times where I was being given good advice but I got triggered because my ego wouldn’t let me look past the true intention of the message. Before we feel like someone is belittling or attacking us, try to see what they said for exactly what it is.

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#145

Why everyone seems so angry lately :eyes:

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#146

I have a dispute with the Induced Follistatin track, cause damn it it’s so good.

Especially the main melody line, is that a clean guitar? Cause it sounds so smooth almost like a jazz lead type tone it’s :sob::heart:

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#147

:thinking:

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#148

@Captain_Nemo I sent you a very important message, please check your inbox

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#149

i think he means the film “Der Untergang”… :flushed: :scream:

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#150

There’s also a Nein Nein Nein Scene in inglorious basterds

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#152

@Zen ^

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#153

Ah, I have indeed confused my films. I believe this is from Inglorious Basterds.

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#154

That’s the one I was thinking about too

#155

@Josh 's true identity.

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#156

Zen is outside of my house guys

I’m hiding under my bed , send help

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