Do you have Pure Magnetic Heart Coherence? If yes then do get Emotional Supporter and combine it with PMHC
Gita, i know you are not mentioning this and I am sorry if by reminding you i trigger emotions that hurt.
The loss you went through normally leaves a deep wound in us and itll take time to heal. And normally when we are grieving a loss, the hurt spills all over other things in our lives.
Grieving has different stages (im not trying to repeat what you maybe already know, but i am doing it to get to a point you will understand why i did)
One of the stages is closing off. To feel anything at all, to think, to analyze etc. Because the pain is so big, our survival instinct switches the protection mode on so we can continue living without going crazy.
And we think that time would eventually heal us while we are in survival mode, but we dont realize (and i am so glad you actually did, and pretty fast, it took me 4 years in my case to understand the dynamic i had fallen into) that by closing the bridge between heart/mind because of the loss, we are blocking any other action that requires heart/mind being bridged as well. Because its the same bridge for all.
Understanding this, its the first step to mend that bridge and open the connections again.
Having said this, as i shared somewhere on the Emotiona Support thread, maybe with my previous profile i dont remember.
But in case you didnt see it, let me repeat a short version.
My family went through 3 big losses in 4 years + 2 other big falls in other parts.
Every member of my direct family reacted different.
My Mom and 1 Sister would cry every day or at least several times a week for 2 years +
Me and another sister switched the survival mode on “ill leave that up to time to heal because i need to be strong to continue living or id fall apart completely”
I eventually came out of it and took me 2 extra years to heal. My other sister is still in that mode :(
And another sister (that lost her daughter plus the other 2 losses) was devastated as my Mom.
This Emotional Support was what saved both. And took them out of the hard daily grieving stage (whether crying or neglecting the bridge conscious or unconsciously) and moved on and gave themselves the chance to “live” again. Not just “survive”
Why am i suggesting adding PMHC to Emotional Supporter?
Because ES feels like if you had someone close to you listening expressing your pain, while telling you how to copy with it or what should you understand from this and that etc. Basically it does the heart/mind job for you. And place it in you as if you had done it. Pretty awesome eh?
PMHC is like bridging the channels in you again, like restarting that natural process. So it stays on.
Combining both would help you heal faster through ES while connecting the bridge again so you can continue on your own after.
Its like if you had an accident that left you unable to walk.
Emotional Support = wheel chair = walks for you
Pure Magnetic Heart Coherence = therapy to learn how to walk again on your own…
i hope that helps.
Last note:
If you feel like this one here can help you instead. Follow your instincts by all means.