Emotional Toughness/ Emotional Control

New Release: Emotional Mastering Protocol

New Audio Field: Conceptual Realizations

Would be good investment.

Other than that i agree with the gentlemen above.

Self love self love self love.

Its great that you guys are trying and checking all the possible ways that need fixing, just remember that knowing when to walk away is also considering the happiness for both parts… even if that means going in different directions.

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If she really has a borderline personality disorder, you should really consider to get out of the relationship as long as you can. Borderline is no joke. I was in a borderline relationship. I am so happy that I was finally able to leave all the manipulation and mind games. The longer you are in a borderline realtionship the harder it gets to leave. to be able to be in a relationship with a borderline personality you have to be a really emotionally stable person with lots of confidence, otherwise it might just break you

Dont want to write too much here, PM me if you want
And I am sorry if I offended any borderliners here. You deserve happiness as everybody else, but this was my experience of such a relationship.

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I suggest you can use just one field: Mercury field from conjunction of spheres.
It turns you to “Gemini/Virgo mode” . You will ignore emotion easily even though you remembered that thing and make you don’t care about other emotion-related things.

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Mercury will help with communication. Emotions shouldn’t be ignored, that’s not a healthy habit. Rather, one should learn mindfulness skills, to allow the emotions to exist in your body, observing them, knowing you are not your emotions. They will come and go, passing like clouds, and you are the clear blue sky.

Field: Unbreakable. To stay strong.

Please look into getting support or professional counseling or therapy, if you and your partner aren’t already. I am partial to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), but for BPD, DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) might be more suitable.

I know these services are not always accessible to everyone, especially in these times, but there are some resources online. The Emotional Support field as mentioned is a start, and you can use that alongside learning healthy emotional management skills. I like the Therapy in a Nutshell channel.

Just know that this is something you shouldn’t feel like you have to handle all by yourself.

All the best.

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I’m not speaking the theory here. I use Mercury planet field for more than 1 month and i become ease in ignoring and control emotion.

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everyone already has given great morphic field suggestions and advice!

i’m really grateful for how healing this discussion is!

that is really loving of you that you’re deciding to work and communicate with your partner and relationship!

i agree that self-love would help!

when i’m with someone i like, i play self love and acceptance from the mental health album to guide our interactions. if it was in-person, maybe you could look into:

i wish you all the best in greater and more peaceful communication!

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I myself am a Virgo and I was able to detach from feelings that my partner was trying to impose on me but with time it has gone away. I’ll try emphatic mandala and some other audios and will see how it will turn out bit ill keep your recommendation on the back of my mind. Thank you :heart:

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Thank you kindly :pray::heart: I started realising that im just an empath and I take on people’s emotions and I need to shield myself. It’s good to be an empath but I want to work on strengthening myself as since I remember I’ve always been super sensitive. I think that leaving my partner is just an “easier” option cause since I get hurt easily, others will hurt me as much so the change of partner won’t sort out the situation in my opinion. All this writing is so cleansing and makes me realise a lot ! Thank you again :relieved:

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I think you’re right with mindfulness! I’ve started meditation recently and I want to carry on and see how it will help me :slightly_smiling_face: I’ll have a look at the therapies you recommended :blush::heart:

+1 in addition to the great suggestions above
(Although maybe Philip meant this one to begin with :sweat_smile:)
I think the other love fields like unconditional love are also good.
Subconscious limits removal, energy blockage removal, heart chakra audios are useful too.

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I’ll definitely use the etheric cord cutter ! And I’m already listening to self love audio so I’ll stick to that. Sometimes I get to that point where I feel like that’s it and it’s over but we always bounce back. I’ll work on my empathy and shielding it and will se how it goes. Thanks for advice :blush:

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Thank you, I’m listening to self love audio, Subconscious blockage removal and energy blockage removal :blush: There are just so many audios that I feel I need :weary::joy: How many audios do you listen to ? Sometimes I just worry that I listen to too many and that they might not work too well but I read the FAQ on their website and it said that we should stick to 4 with the physical changes but the dream seeds channel hasn’t got much to do with physicality as such so I guess I could listen to quite a lot ? :thinking: what do you think ?

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Yes most of us here listen to a lot :laughing:
There are some people with extreme amount, for me it’s 13-20 but I can’t lower it more :laughing:
It sounds like a lot but… it’s very quick to reach 15.

You can add more than 4, I personally notice that results are much slower if I listen to more. I would definitely recommend become whole, it’s one of my favourite fields ever :blush:

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I know! It’s so easy to keep adding to the list :joy: that’s why I limited my physical changes videos but discovered dream seeds audios and I feel like I need a lot of them. I probably have about 20 :shushing_face::sweat_smile: But they definitely work, especially the Subconscious blockage removal, I feel like I’m getting to another level with consciousness :blush: And I’ll carry on with the self love one ! Many thanks and lots of love :heart:

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:white_check_mark:
Yes, that’s the one I mean (become
whole) every time I recommend “self-love/ dissolve insecurities”. I’ve been recommending it for months and always with the wrong name :man_facepalming:

Anyway, I have it on Item with attract wealth so, I don’t get to read the audio title :man_shrugging:

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I only it noticed that part of the title now :sweat_smile:

There is also a self love field on the mental health album which is different.

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Use the unbreakable audio. Problem solved. It does many things that you can’t even imagine and use justice for everyone with hands of glory

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I think you should add Ojas to your playlist! Cultivate more of that inner power

And The Mana Circuits for self expression… :))

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I’ve recently started listening to the ojas :slightly_smiling_face:I see you have a kitsune avatar. Have you been using it ?

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haha yeah sure! Printing it out on a dog tag soon! Has its essence and benefits as well as its drawbacks a bit. But this one here has to do more with your original persona! So all love to Kitsune and this Kitsune lady :’D

Are you drawn to it? For me when I first saw it … it draw me inside into it… I felt like I saw myself drawn before my eyes. cheesy and hard to explain lol but it’s what happened.

Look into Sabertooth too! The combination of both is really something that’s more unique :)

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