Hmm
It’s almost as if as people grow up they learn from the situations and failures. Then they start to see beyond their entitlement and understand that they have to provide some value to their partners who also have their own preferences.
Somehow, they internalize this idea that they can’t just have whatever they want because they want it or grab any girl on the spot.
Then they would look around and notice patterns, channeling their desires and bypassing the instant gratification to become man instead of boys. You know, men… who can provide a degree of safety, ressources, bonding to ladies which requires the experience and empathy to understand the psyche of women… which is not natural to males.
Hmm
It’s almost as if every other civilization had rituals and preparations for men to learn a civilized mating rituals based not just on impulses and violence…
That would indeed make sense if women valued mental and emotional companionship the most and would have sex/breed with their most agreable friends.
I wonder if the data and testimonies from women supports that idea or if it’s ridiculous from a single glance at the body of knowledge humans have accumulated and their individual experience… then there must be a good reason.
Girls put in a lot of effort to look good, stay fit, be fun, look somewhat “pure” or appear “cool”, haircuts or whatever. They learn a lot of behaviors to please and attract the best males they can.
All those makeup factories and anti-aging serums.
Men do the same.
Would you tell a girl who weight 160kg, has a bald haircut and brown teeth + bad BO to stay the same but stop repressing her sexual energy body, to forget her pas experiences and common sense and then go after the men of her dream with a good joke ?
Would you bet on the tall, muscular, rich men to find her attractive and choose her for a long term monogamous relationship ?
Would that be a good advice or a cruel joke ?
I know many guys think talking politically correct advices will get them more pull with the ladies. But what about the young men learning ?
When children scratch their butthole, we tell them it’s wrong. When they put stuff they found in the street in their mouth we tell them it’s bad, it can make them sick. We tell them not to scream and cry in some places just because they feel like it. We teach children to control their emotions.
People are not magically good, progress and prosperity is rare. Peace is rare. The historical norm is poverty, war, rape. Technological progress, equality etc… all take work and conditioning.
Animal and primitive societies are the most unfair and violents. Sexual impulses left unchecked creates conflicts and tensions, then violence.
We create checks and balances and we make efforts to empathize which is different than sympathy.
All around the world, isolated societies invented religions and systems to repress their primitive sides, minimize promiscuity without talking to each others and once it failed and conflict re-emerges, they invented new religions and systems even secular ones.
