Hey folks,
Sigh. It has come to my understanding that another mother, whom I used to talk to, has been spreading malicious rumors about me to all the other school parents.
This happened back in April and she continues to do so.
Luckily, one of my friends told me everything that’s been said and for some reason of the other, every time she sees this toxic mother, the toxic mother has something nasty to say about me. Yet…I haven’t seen her since April. But apparently I’m doing lots of awful things….
I tend to keep the peace around, I hate gossip and I haven’t succumbed to her level of hate. Yet it’s affecting me terribly now.
No one talks to me, they treat me like dirt. They’re abrupt and rude.
According to this toxic mother, I have a problem with her daughter who is autistic.
My daughter befriended her in nursery and was such a dedicated friend.
Each time I went to their house, the mother would put me down and undermine me. She made me feel so uneasy and I was genuinely afraid of her.
One day, she messaged me asking if we could meet up on the Monday of the school holidays. I told her we had plans to visit my friends down south and she sent me a message saying something along the lines of “well, if you don’t want to see us, why don’t you just say? This is ridiculous…” Yadda Yadda.
We had seen them on the Friday…but if I ever had plans or any other friends, she would make me feel terrible about it.
So I stopped talking to her because it was making me very ill (I already suffer major depression. Something she said was my fault.)
I ignored her message.
On the day back from the holidays, she fakely (in front of others) said “oh, hi Ally!” And I just walked away. It was disgusting.
She followed me and even barricaded me on the street (drove down in a rage to literally block me as I was walking down) and was screaming and shouting at me, telling me I was ostracizing her daughter.
She then proceeded to start a rumor that I have a problem with her daughter and now people think I’m a monster.
The truth is, I care a lot about her daughter, but I can’t stand her.
But she is a woman with a business and a big house. I’m a failure to society because of my depression which has caused me to withdraw a lot.
Who will they believe?
I feel really down. Very alone. Disappointed that this has happened.
It’s not showing any sign of stopping and seems to be getting worse.
I just want to come off this planet. I find it really hard. Socialising has always been difficult for me as I find it hard to let people in. I was doing so well and now I’m back to square one.
It’s affecting me greatly. I don’t know what to do. I wish she would get her comeuppance for this. I really do. I wish people could see her for who she really is.
Sorry for the long post, I had to get it out there as I have no one else to talk to.
Does anyone have any advice? I feel so stuck.
Thank you