I mean, this was released recently:
https://forum.enlightenedstates.com/t/romantic-relationship-enhancer/84936?u=drift
I can’t comment much on the situation. I’ve experienced similar things, stemming from trauma on her part.
Are you both in love still? Otherwise I wouldn’t bother, tbh…
Most couples get bored or tired or at some point hate each other and they look for reasons to break up. Which you can do if you aren’t in love anymore, no need to look for any other reason imo.
I’d also try this:
Or even cut cords with her (if at all possible), clear yourself of any negativity about this or her, and then use this field or what have you for reconnecting.
In any case, I wish you good luck.