The whole purpose of the marriage contract is not to have happy families or people’s intimacy needs fullfilled, but for the state to outsource financial olbigations sooner or later onto its citizen because of the massive amount of divorces. The state only cares about its cash flow and keeping people down under its control, struggling to pay their bills.
The state does not give a fuck if someoone gets the amount of intimacy they need, hoped for or are ready to receive/give. The whole marriage contract is all about outsourcing financial obligations. Sexual consent laws are completely detached and independent of the marriage contract laws.
A lot of men are stlll tricked into the marriage contract with the promise of guranteed eternal sex. But of course, legally, a marriage contract does not entitle or obligate anyone to receive or give sex to their partners.
Most people are delusional here, not aware of the laws and are brainwashed by Disney fairy tales.
And then additionally, the state’s agenda is to turn women into aggressive unhappy feminists to switch their perception onto all the things that their husbands are doing wrong so that they then divorce their husbands after several years and all the financial obligations are put onto the men’s shoulders. The state wants people to marry, but then it wants them to get divorced as soon as possible so that the financial obligations are transferred from the state onto the man (in most cases).
Now that more and more people are waking up to this, the state has radicalized the laws even further, as now you count “as married” just for co-habitating together for more than 2 years. So now you cannot even live with your GF/BF together in the same flat for more than 2 years without the state forcing itself into your relationship with its laws of outsourcing financial obligations onto you.
At least these are the mechanics here in Germany (and most Western countries).
There are 3 possible solutions that I see at the moment:
- Only interact with high-self esteem romantic partners to reduce the risk of divorce rape and financial rape
- Only book professionals
- Move to a country where marriage still means something and marry a high-self esteem partner there
