First, You need to learn to READ posts more carefully, understand what’s written and then respond. Second, that was my comment in general to discuss sex.
If YOU are taking what I wrote personally, then the issue is with YOU. Third, you then were rude to me.
This is the second time you’ve done this with me and that’s enough. You need to stop responding to me because next time, I won’t be this nice here.
Did I misunderstand you? Because I literally had just posted about religion and sex right before you said that. 
I’ll read it again. If I did misunderstand you, I apologize.
And yea if you notice the wording, it was because I thought you were implying the same exact thing towards me
Where exactly did I imply ANYTHING about you?
It wasn’t that I took what you said personally as far as the subject matter. Everyone if free to their own opinion.
Not trying to be rude right now but I just said why I thought you were referring to me. Because of what I had just wrote about religion and sex and then you responded with “if we can talk about sex without religious induced guilt and shame (which has zero to do with anything as I was strictly referring to metaphysical consequences), but maybe we aren’t there yet.” it really wasn’t reasonable to assume that was a response to me considering you posted it right after me?
Anyway please @mods can you deactivate/delete my acct. I’m on my laptop and phone trying to and can’t find the option
You log in 2 hours later and it’s still going on
FFS man… that’s NOT what I wrote.
THIS is what I wrote:
BIG DIFFERENCE
I’m ending this.
Is this the Mercury Retrograde everyone’s talking about? Same topic same patterns?
Shouldn’t we just play Navagraha Homam with the new Black Mirrored Stone Shield 
oh, that explains a thought I had a couple hours ago.
I’m going to nullify that.
Yeah, it’s the planet’s fault
Yeah, I’m gonna have to close this thread if this continues on. @Gnosticmedic27 Leave the keyboard, take some deep breaths and meditate man. You say you’re on a spiritual path so don’t give into your ego wanting to be right and win arguments against people. Just let it go. If you can’t let it go and walk away then your ego keeps winning. Desire to come out on top in something like this rather than resolve isn’t much different than the kind of lust you are against.
I was supposed to be having popcorn.
Geez, every thread on sex in this forum goes this route. @_OM called it lol.
Sex is a beautiful thing but I tend to forget there’s so much stigma, taboo, trauma, certain attachments and just all kinds of things tied to the topic. I’d love to talk more about it but I don’t like where these topics lead. Opinions are too strong when it comes to sex. And I guess I get it. Sexuality is a very intimate part of people’s personalities.
I appreciate what you’re saying man. I’m not trying to be right on the topic. I just feel I can never talk about this subject maturely. I’m all up for discussion on this topic. I thought it was a shut down of the conversation to write off religious views on sex as “guilt and shame” but i guess a lot of people don’t realize there is a difference between the esoteric understanding and the fanatical organized religions nowadays who do just shame and guilt trip people about it. I was trying to discuss the actual deep reasons behind it. I think you’re one of the only people, you and @JAAJ who ive had this talk with without people without you guys being offended by it. I don’t care to be right. I like discussions.
And to be candid, I am FAR from being lust free. I’m not pretending to be on some high horse. It’s my biggest battle. I spoke to Dream about it recently.
Exactly! Probably best we don’t discuss it then. LOL
Or maybe we talk about it BECAUSE it’s so triggering for folks. You can’t heal things unless they come up to surface… right?
You could be the balanced moderator navigating the conversations. 
@Starlight i found it lol
But message me so i send the link cause i dont want to open the Pandora Box after thia thread tonight lol
The issue is when you speak as if what you’re saying is factual and ‘others will maybe one day grow up to understand what you are saying.’ That is condescending and isn’t quite leaving the room open for discussion. You’re already letting it be known that what you are saying is 100% true and others don’t have the maturity or understanding to fully comprehend what you’ve come to know…
That’s probably why you can sometimes come in conflict when sharing your views. I don’t have anything against your views as I’m sure others don’t have something against your views either. But when you overtly judge other people’s views, that also opens the door for conflicting energy.
So just saying bruv. Perhaps word your expressions in a more open manner and you might not end up in this kind of conflict and instead have a nice open discussion where we can all learn from eachother.
We’ll keep the thread going. Like @Starlight said, whether or not tension arises, we can release it if we all listen to eachother. This is an important topic and if this kind of thing happens often, then it’s best to break through that barrier. We’re all growing here right? So let’s break whatever walls we got in the way 
Yay!!
Sorry to butt in but do you mind if I PM you for the link too?
You’re right. I definitely could’ve been more graceful in my response but what continues to be lost here is I said what I said in those words because I perceived Starlight to be implying that exact thing to me by saying (in not the same exact words) “maybe we aren’t ready for discussion that unburdens us from religious induced guilt and shame” to be a sarcastic/passive aggressive shot at what I had just wrote about religion and sex just before she said that. She says it wasn’t and so maybe I was wrong and if I am i apologize sincerely @Starlight , just seemed like a reasonable assumption.