Sammy I love you so much I needed this so bad, thank you
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Ima go in a bit of a long rant here but here goes nothin.
I am personally not against being sexually promiscuous. Especially in college as om says, when people tend to be at their sexual prime and are more willing to have sex without attachment. Great way to explore and learn more about yourself sexually.
But only if thatâs your thing anyways, as I know some people believe sex should only be done with a trusted partner. Which that perspective is fine too. I donât think there is an overall right answer to sexual preferences.
From my perspective, sex is technically just another form of exchange of energy. Us talking to eachother right now is an exchange of energy. Sex can simply be but a casual and fun exchange of energy and it really is for many people. It really can just be a fun activity to do with someone youâre attracted to lol.
The thing is that sex is more intimate than other activities. Our nakedness is private and unseen by the world. These bodies grant us the illusion that we are separate so when we share âourâ bodies with others, we feel that this is something private and sacred.
But in essence, I am of the belief that all energy is shared anyways. We are all one but just illusively separated by the fact your consciousness is concentrated on âyourâ body and my consciousness is in âmyâ body.
So in sex, there is this tension between you and your partner. This wanting to merge. Your energy wanting to push out of its shell and merge with the other (but most people are not so aware of this as they are overwhelmed by desire/urge to cum). This is what tantra seeks to accomplish. This is love.
And love doesnât have to be this exclusive thing either. Beings from different realms donât see sex as this exclusive thing like humans do. They exist in the awareness that all energy is shared so merging in loving unity with other beings is a casual thing. Their form of sex tends to be a pleasurable unifying of energies.
Heck when you think about it, playing a game with someone and enjoying your time with them is a pleasurable exchange of energy. Having a pleasant conversation with a stranger in a forum is a pleasurable exchange of energy :D
Haha. I know what youâre thinking and Iâll address it. Being a human being is complicated and things donât just work out in this happy go lucky way for the most part. For one, our sexual drive is driven by the primal instinct to procreate.
Once we hit puberty, our bodies are literally forcing us to go out there and get laid. This primal instinct becomes a consistent and annoying thought pattern in a manâs life that comes to derail his focus and self control. Itâs actually rather annoying and tends to be a huge detriment to mindfulness. And for many women in the beginning, this lust tends to be masked with very powerful crushes. When teenage girls liked a guy, he would take up a lot of time on her mind lol.
Then, the tribe leaders make up all these rules about sex to manage how we procreate and in many societies (like Indiaâs caste system), with who we procreate. So now these rules become engrained into our sexuality. Sexual desire is chaotic. We donât choose who or how we desire so often often cross the linee of âgoodâ and âbadâ in our societyâs sexual taboos. And this induces in us feelings of shame and guilt.
This shame and guilt right off the bat represses our sexual energy and doesnât allow it to flow freely and lovingly.
And so many people grow up with repressed sexual energy⌠and then get introduced to sex through porn. Right off the bat, men get the worst depiction of sex possible lol. And even the worst instructions on how to please a woman (automatically jump in and thrust like a jackrabbit).
They also learn how to ejaculate as quickly as possible which makes it even less likely theyâll bring a woman to orgasm. And icing on the cake id that many develop insecurities because they naturally compare their penises to the enormous sizes in porn.
And remember how I spoke of that energetic impulse to to merge⌠that love, that makes up the essence of sex⌠this isnât existent at all in porn. This merging makes it so the womanâs pleasure pleases him and his pleasure pleases her. A circular flow of ecstasy.
But as we develop sexually, our sexuality ends up just being driven by the primal instinct to just ejaculate. Hence why many men donât know how to listen to women in bed and can only listen to their urge to cum.
So all of this sucks for women! Because many men end up being quite terrible at sex and leave quite a bad impression of it on many of them. And some men are so repressed or end up with so many internal issues, that they end up physically or emotionally abusing women through sex. So of course many women end up being very picky of their partners. Past experiences make them weary of most men.
But itâs not only that⌠but society has all these standards of beauty that make women very self conscious of their bodies. So theyâre afraid to show their nakedness to just anyone and would rather do so to someone they grow to trust.
Sex can also be risky⌠there are stds and even the chance of pregnancy. So youâre taking a gamble in merging with someone. So in many women and menâs minds, better to engage in the act so with someone you truly bond with.
Part of the reason why monogamy has become a universal human practice ( it wasnât ages ago) is because it better ensures the survival of the human species. A child has a much better change of surviving and thriving if the father and mother are both in the picture. But if the father goes around sleeping with other women and getting them attached or impregnating them, then that lessens his capacity to care for his first child(or new ones!).
So yes, sex as a human being is pretty complicated 
The whole love/merging thing I spoke about isnât even something you can just do in casual sex because⌠it may likely make the other person fall for you or get scared with the feelings it emerges. Free lovers are a very rare breed of people⌠and when normal folks sleep with one of them, they either fall in love or are scared away.
So that sucks. If you go casual, itâs usually best do so for the love of pleasure and the personâs company. That way, thereâs less room for possible attachments to arise.
Iâm a free spirit. Iâm not one for rules or belief systems. But everyone has their own rules about sex and this isnât my reality. Itâs our collective reality. So all we can do is navigate sex with respect and understanding of one another. Communication is the key to this.
More that can be said but I already wrote too much lol. My bad for these skyscrapers of text.
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oh so underrated. Its one of the best field in my opinion.
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I think this with some creativity its Final Boss Class 
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Gonna stick with subconscious limit Remover and mindfulness only for the next few months
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Sex is kind of amazing. When I had sex with my ex, it was animalistic in a way, but we had an emotional connection as well. Trading compromises, sharing and so on. Itâs just a more physical, non-verbal way of bonding.
Yet I remember one time when I was quite âdeepâ after a meditation, went to bed and then subsequently had a visit by a light being who communicated with me and then subsequently our hearts kind of connected spontaneously and then literally the entire field became nothing but light - and i stayed there for a while before rousing out of sleep. Jesus, it was the closest thing I had to a spiritual wet dream lol. But some part of that didnât have that heavy, coarse, animalistic energy, it was pure and light.
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The sex thing its a little tricky. Some people rather than sex, try to find some type of intimacy. And intimacy not always its related to sex.
In the past i had some troubles with sex and the sexuality in general, but now i almost in control of my thoughts and impulses. Now im glad to say that i can enjoy more looking at my girlfriend, being hugged and things like that, than the same sex ( dont misunderstand me haha sex is great, but I already see it as a spiritual connection rather than physical contact)
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âŚand sometimes for some people the need for an oxytocin fix is disguised as the need for intimacy.
âŚand sometimes for some people this need for an intimate connection is just their longing to be re-merged back into their Higher Self.
All quite complex and so many different combinations and variations of needs and wants â the unique blend of the homo sapien physical earth experience 
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youâd benefit so so much more if you added the chakra series
and the soul restoration one
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Iâve tried em before they did their job, but I need to control my impulses and thatâs my biggest problem
they will exactly work on that ( the sacral one )
also those arenât short term audios, youâll always benefit from having your chakras being growed over and over again
the chakras audios target pretty much every aspects of our mental health, personality, they are complete
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also for sexual balance, the ojas refined field, and the transmutation one
ojas field balance your sexual energy
this + sacral chakra and youâr super good !
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I was ravaged and ridden by a kali like feminine body for hours while I was âsleepingâ a few nights ago. Definitely not just a dream⌠it was next level. Just thought Iâd share 
What it really felt like, now Iâve had the chance to be with it, was a very deep meeting with the feminine. A losing control. It doesnât feel like there was any malevolence there
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Just asking what do people recommend for removing repressed energy
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Yes, she was blue and white. I did wonder for a moment when I woke if it was
haha
But she was even more primal and etheric
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yo. Kk well for starters you have awareness so thatâs a plus
When I was in college, I was the opposite. I went to a notorious sex-staved college where if you didnât sleep around, you werenât totally rocking the social coolness vibe.
My guide to what I used to do:
I moved off college grounds. Might not be economically feasible though
I gave up clubbing and the partying scene- instead I filled it with working out, reading, meditating, watching movies, and well studying lol . Maybe think about graduate school - so MCAT LSAT studying can help keep you occupied.
I gave up drinking so my energy state would be less susceptible
Let go of my sorority sisters bc wayyyyy too much hu culture and frat guys would not stop bothering me with their advances- so leaving that clique really helped lower that
(in your case, hang out with people who can help better yourself , surround yourself with wholesomeness!)
Will it make college harder for you if you do what I did?
âŚeh in some aspects lol. But sometimes, when we want to advance ourselves, we have to forego the pleasures that once accompanied us in the former state; it is a consequence, but a beneficial one
Oh btw
Sex is creative energy so maybe channel that energy into creating something! For me, it was poetry and modeling 
Keep going my dude
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Yooo mindfulness is truly a gem
Been very present lately.
Came home a little mood swing so I decided to loop a bunch of audios.
Kind of feeling lazy but present.
Might add kinetic quasi crystal to keep that mindfulness effect going on
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You mean sexual energy?
What kind of fields were u listening to make urself attractive