@MrNiceGuy PMing you something to add!
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I want to use brain regeneration and charisma and glamour but where should I add it before, after or somewhere in the stack?
MrNiceGuy,
I don’t like to write on forums anymore but this time I did it with you.
I am registered on a site (in my country’s language) to listen to or rather read people who want to write about their lives. And the day after I answered you, a “NiceGuy” wrote to me a long message. Funny, isn’t it!
I don’t have anything to advise or ask you, but I’ll do it anyway: stay nice MrNiceGuy. Don’t be afraid of the people around, it is often disgusting, revolting, sometimes even dangerous (be careful) but so funny in the end. If you want to help laugh I would be grateful. Fields help to stay quiet.
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I didn’t quite get what you meant here.
Sorry, I meant to say that humour helps to take a step back from a difficult situation. I’m struggling at the moment but I’ll try again. And help is welcome!
Yesterday my neighbour helped me and without accepting money. A nice guy, I’m going to give him a present anyway. But what he gave me is priceless: a breath of hope to stay alive.
I had the opportunity to meet many people who were “spiritual”. Empty bellies, in fact. Kindness, for me, is a source of spirituality because it brings more than just material help.
If you don’t understand my sentences, please tell me.
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Yeah kindness and bein nice is good. But not being able to say no and not standing up for yourself is a big problem. I will try to work on that. :)
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It is clear that the rescuer must not drown with the victim…
What would be interesting to know is whether or not the help given is beneficial. What will the helper lose and why does he/she accept it. Besides, what will the “helped” person lose or gain.
For example: a person talks to you (unloads her/his bad emotions in fact) because … it prevents him/her from talking to people who really need to hear what he/she has to say.
Are we helping or are we being used?
is kindness a weakness?
Yes, many people think so.
Are they right in a world where it seems that the values are totally reversed…
There is something to be said for being worn out, revolted, angry when you give (I’m talking about real “givers”), but life doesn’t last long. Those who try to stay nice need other kind people to succeed in remaining good.
I guess that’s why I’m talking to you this way, it’s in my best interest actually but I don’t have the right. Everyone has the right to do what they want in fact. (unless it is my neighbor who breaks the silence of nature 
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