Hi everyone, greetings to all. I’ve spent much of my time learning and reading new things on this amazing forum, I am so happy to be a part of Sapien family.
I am a 22 year old man. My dad is an architect, he earned good amount of wealth till 2010, but right from 2011 everything went downhill. We are a family of 4. Everything went negative very slowly that we haven’t recovered from it still yet.
I am writing everything in detail below please do read it👇
- My dad wanted to expand his business and took his first real estate project in 2011 but did not complete it successfully.
- He took another big project in 2015 but did not complete it either.
- He took his 3rd project, again it wasn’t completed either.
- He wasted all the business funds in buying unnecessary liabilities like a 4 acre land, a new office just because his degenerate mf friend advised him to do so. That person literally created so much of trouble within our family and the business too.
- He took out a business loan of $300K in 2017 but it wasn’t enough so that was just waste again to repay earlier business debts
Failure Reasons?
- Poor money management skills.
- He has been duped by ALOT of people.
- He is a very smart person, but still operates on emotions out with business people who are cunning.
- Not discussing business with the family or with potential genuine people.
- Trusting the wrong people ALL the time
And now after 10 years?
- Bank literally took possession of our house, they sealed all our 3 properties together cuz dad failed to repay the outstanding loan amount.
- All us 4 are out here with no help, fortunately a good friend of dad allowed us all to stay at his home for a while.
- We are literally living in poverty since 2018. There is not a single good outcome yet.
- People are texting him calling him ready to fight cuz he owes them money.
He is trying to get a business fund/loan since 3 years now, he met around more than 10 people (private funders) but they all kept him hanging promising false hopes. Not a single funder has completed any agreement or disbursement as promised.
It’s like each and everything is just stopped since 4 years and we are just surviving, each and everyday is the same day for us, there is not even 1% change or growth in life. Not a single positive outcome yet.
The sad thing is, just because of his mistakes, the whole family is suffering and I’m literally so angry and mentally disturbed. I couldn’t complete my college because of him, I couldn’t setup my own business because of him, I couldn’t grow completely as a teenager because of him, and the same shit is happening to my mom and my younger sister.
We are in touch with 2 people right now, say person A has promised to disburse atleast $1.2M but now it feels like he’s just fucking around cuz it’s been 2 years he hasn’t completed the funding process and is still postponing the meetings all the fucking time.
Person B, he is supposed to do the same thing but haven’t done anything yet.
P.S: My dad paid the above people in advance a security deposit.
The outcome is NOTHING.
He is trying to sell the land which he bought for unnecessary reasons, but that’s a long process. He is even trying to sell his 2 earlier projects which are stuck. He carried out meetings with interested people but still till now there’s not a single transaction done, or anything positive.
I am simply praying all day and asking the universe to help my dad get all his loan/funds transferred successfully so we can repay his debts and start all over again from scratch. I want to establish my own real estate business with my dad as soon as possible but outcome is nothing. I have so many people to prove wrong, so many people have been secretly laughing on my family’s current situation, and I want to rise from the ashes to earn so much of wealth they would never even imagine.
I want to get out of this so BAD, I want to sacrifice my life for earning money and growing my business just to prove all those people, I want to climb up the success ladder and sit on the top where there is lonely but atleast ill have my family. I want to provide the best lifestyle to my myself and my family, I want to achieve the fuck out of my goals, every single goal. I want to mark all my goals and dreams as “successfully done” asap till next 30 years. But universe is just simply not helping me or my dad out.
I feel like prosperity, happiness, abundance, personal success, financial success, growth etc has been completely stripped off away from my family.
I care alot about my future, I care alot about what I’ll be doing next year, I have many plans and goals but me and family’s life is on a “pause” mode rn cuz of my dad.
I would really appreciate your advices, how and which sapien/dream’s field would help me and my family to get out of this shit completely and asap?
I am really requesting you all to advice me.
It may be specific audios, it might be a stack, or just your thoughts would really be good for me right now.
Please suggest me all the audios according to y’all, I won’t be able to buy paid audios for now as I’m literally broke and with all my family thrown out of my house, but I’ll surely listen to the free YT ones consistently.
Thanks if you read it all, I hope y’all have a great day