Relationships & love

[psynergy]

@Haminum

Alot of people keep ignoring me even if i did nothing wrong i am not toxic towards anyone in anyway i also wanna socialize but i am very bad at it so… what would you recommend?

have you tried morphic fields that cleanse and transmute negative energy?

Repel Negative Energy ver 2.0

@Haminum

I have tried reading about it in here i didn’t understand a thing could someone give me a shortcut explaination about it?

one of the concepts the plasma morphics fields use is negentropy.

Negentropy is reverse entropy. It means things becoming more in order. By ‘order’ is meant organisation, structure and function: the opposite of randomness or chaos. One example of negentropy is a star system such as the Solar System.

how i’ve experienced it is the feeling of separation and loneliness start to reverse towards the direction of unification and harmonious relationships.

my stack that has assisted me with other souls opening up to me:

• plasma flower and plasma flower node connector
• essence of beauty

here are a few questions you can think about that may help you with socializing:

• smile at yourself in the mirror, do you look inviting?
• do you ask appropriate and genuine questions?
• do you feel confident in interpreting other people’s body language?
• record yourself, what do you think about your voice?
• do you have expectations for what the person will be for you?
• do you feel like you may be projecting beliefs onto someone before getting to know them?
• what do you think about yourself? do you compare yourself to others?
• what kind of friendships are you looking for?
• can you find common ground/hobbies with someone new?
• how are you with personalities changing to being more or less compatible with you?

i find the most success by doing the following:

• be kind
• expect nothing
• keep the door open
• be the first to take action
• ho’oponopono

for the last one, you can google it to find more information.

we also have our friend angelgome’s thread for your viewing pleasure:

@anon22855873

Ho’oponopono As A Release Mechanism:

Ho’oponopono (HPP) is a combination of four commands, each statement is supposed to induce a mental state or a feeling which then creates an effect. The words alone will not do the effect, the focus on the process with the words will. Keep in mind that this way of using this practice is from my own experience and proven through the experience of many others.

1. Bring up a situation you wish to work on with your eyes closed. Focus on the image and sounds until you feel the emotion/feeling of the situation you’re working on. When you feel the feeling, focus on that, and begin the process.
2. While fully focused on the feeling, relax into it. It is expected that in you focusing on it you will feel way worse.
3. First statement: “I am sorry”

You’re saying this statement to the feeling you feel. The effect should be that the feeling intensifies due to the full focus you will give it. This is now your opportunity to work on this situation.

4. Second statement: “Please forgive me”

As you say this to this feeling, the effect should feel a slight removal or disassociation of the feeling. Another way it has been described is that “a lift happens”.

5. Third statement: “I love you”

Understand love as absolute unconditional acceptance. When you say this to this feeling you’re to hold the feeling of that statement until the feeling gets completely replaced by the feeling induced by the command. Very often you’ll feel the heavy feeling “lift” from your shoulders. Even if you have to keep repeating the command and getting more “doses” of the feeling, continue until you feel the replacement of the heaviness.

If that is too hard, you’re also open to feel the negative feeling and then switch to the “I love you” back and forth until you do not feel the negative feeling at all. (Collapsing Polarity)

6. Fourth statement: “Thank you”

Find the feeling of gratitude and hold it for a little bit. What you’re giving gratitude to is the good feeling that is remaining from the process. This encapsulates the session. “You get more of what you’re grateful for”. (Polarity Cementing as I call it at times)

7. Assessment (EXTREMELY IMPORTANT)

Review the situation, when you think about it, there shouldn’t be any feeling towards it and at times it will be difficult to remember what you just worked on. If there’s still some heaviness remaining, redo the cycle. One to two cycles tends to be enough for any situation. But do as many as you need, a child molestation case in the past took us 10 cycles to fully clear. The person is really happy these days.

why do i mention ho’oponopono? it’s the best way i have personally found to heal and strengthen the bonds of my relationships by going within. my relationships are a reflection of what i see and feel about myself and those i am connected with. when i heal myself, i heal the relationships that are associated to the concepts.

what i mean by healing is to allow time and space to be with the ‘unwanted’ and ‘unpleasant’ emotions. and then let them go, detach, resolve, accept, and go about your daily life.

if it sticks around, it needs more time and space so find the time and space to continue practicing ho’oponopono with the feelings and beliefs.

i find that it is important for me to take care of the unwanted and unpleasant feelings first. they’re more in the ‘forefront’ than the emotions and feelings i would rather feel.

wherever you are at in your social life, quality is more important than quantity.

i found that investing my time, space, energy, and love towards those who are already my friends and family have given me more opportunities and practice for new people to come into my life.

invest more time in yourself. there are many things you can do solo especially with hobbies.

i sing, i climb, i hike, i play games. my hobbies are also something i can enjoy talking to others about.

ever since i started climbing, more and more of my friends go ‘oh i climb too!’.

there are many hobbies one can do solo that can also be translated to group activities.

meditating with others can also be a great way to connect. doing yoga with others.

@Haminum best wishes on your journey my friend! may doors open for you and friendships be true.