First you might want to read thru this thread for further clarification (although at some point I’ll probably need to clarify some subtleties I left out)
https://forum.enlightenedstates.com/t/anyone-wear-the-ascension-tag/6400
The ability to balance/integrate/transcend polarities/dualities in one’s own consciousness on this plane is doing the “work” of the macrocosm on the microcosm level.
Had to look up what defines a “grey Jedi”.
Umm… kinda…
Hard to say without knowing you personally.
Original “buddhist” teachings are called “The Middle Path” as they are neither extreme.
Well yeah, they want more “work” to be done and want you on their “side”.
Many aren’t entirely cognizant of why they want more people on their side even on “higher” plans.
It’s an instinctual/intuitive thing where they know and believe it’s necessary, cause it is.
Don’t get me wrong there is plenty of “help” for those choosing the middle path as well.
The problem is, the vast majority of people aren’t doing the middle path (or the other paths)…
They are simply oscillating between one extreme/duality and the other one and making little to no progress on any path…
In that way, the middle/non-dual path is harder as one needs to be brutally honest with themselves (insert posts about needing a teacher here) and there’s less room for “error” before one’s finds themselves “stuck” oscillating between polarities instead of balancing them.