The Social Bonder

Interesting

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Same but in my case Iā€™m the one who had this feeling to reconnect with my old friends.

So itā€™s me in my friends lives lmao

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Yes, because it goes both ways, someone reaches out or you resurface back to them :)

PS: Iā€™d love to hear if this still happens when the planet is back to its regular programming early October onwards!

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Resume of my update because it was too long.

  • less affected by shameful past
  • less affected by others opinions
    Not getting results on
    Being able to openly talk about anything
    Still shy
    But itā€™s only been like 1-2 days so i still have progress to make
    If i listen continuously for months i may get those full results by then
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Iā€™ve been using this field since the day it was released. Iā€™ve already shared the experiment I conducted (and Iā€™m still carrying it out) and its results in another post.

Compared to when I didnā€™t have this field, Iā€™ve experienced a decline in interactions, both in terms of quantity and quality. I must also admit that in some contexts, I feel more closed off than usual, while in others, Iā€™m certainly more outgoing.

For me, itā€™s a transitional period where many of the old things need to make way for the new. Unfortunately, thereā€™s no metamorphosis without a bit of struggle and pain.

What drives me to keep going is more of a feeling that things can change for the better. Iā€™ve already glimpsed some small signs, so itā€™s a matter of persevering, persisting, and having patience.

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This too has been my experience. A deep rewiring for us

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Time to update.
I went to a party yesterday and i connect so well with my friends friendā€™s, i was so social, maybe the alcohol helped a bit but i donā€™t care, the girls ask for my ig, and we exchange, we danced, laughed and had a lot of fun.
Another day when i socialize again i will try not to drink just to see if i am so social without alcohol :)
But i was such an extrovert and had a lot of achievement socially

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The struggle and pain you believe is necessary for metamorphosis is just resistance. Combine your new process with letting go like using subconscious limits removal or ego diss. Sometimes externals like hoā€™oponopono or release technique can smooth the journey. :slightly_smiling_face:

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My goals with this audio.
- Social extrovert like a social butterfly type of thing.
- Social confidence and social shameless.
----------------- Ask questions if i connected well with someone connect with them on social media and ask for their number or ig, ask questions to teachers without fear or shame
------------------ communication skills, like stop being afraid to not say something by what will they think of me if i say it, like stop being hyper mega aware of my words and stop being afraid of fucking up all the time something thatā€™s going great
----------------- In general dating and social wise to have healthy attachments, not avoidant, anxious or any other one i donā€™t like. Have healthy attachments and be confident with it.
I want to see if this audio can help achieve my attachment goals.

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Yes this field is great so far, I have adhd so sometimes I donā€™t even pay attention to what people say but this field makes me secure with myself and Iā€™m starting to listen to my friends, relationships and family more.

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This hasnt happened before, but when I play this field

on my earphones only the right earphone will play the

social bonder. And when I put on any other field the

earphones play from both.

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Thatā€™s correct, fields donā€™t need stereo output. Also regarding Social Bonder that situation is already clarified and simply how it was produced - The Social Bonder - #33 by Dr_Manhattan

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Been using this for a couple weeks or so now and ive noticed im engaging in conversation at work a lot more now and carrying them on for timee

i just really hope this can help me with my biggest problem, running out of things to say esp on dates (this is y i cant get a gf lmao)

any1 got any tips on that tho? thx

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Yeah same, i was about to write a comment to say it. For me itā€™s since the beginning and itā€™s very unconfortable

Any possible rectification @DR_MANHATTAN ? :leaves:

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Just got this field today. First brain field Iā€™ve ever gotten. I donā€™t have any of the boosters so not going to expect fast results like a lot of people are getting. Still going to loop this reasonably along with PBOY.

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I was reading an article regarding main topic ā€œlimerenceā€, which means when you feel deeply infatuated with someone. Those who grew up having anxious attachment are more likely to be infatuated with someone due to not having healthy boundaries and coping mechanism.

Combine limerence and anxious attachment, and you have someone chasing after the person for the wrong reasons, creating unrealistic expectation for themselves and the person and this happens to many people, you view this person you have a crush on as your external validation and motivation and when they donā€™t meet your criteria of what you expected, you fall down to a hole, being in emotional turmoil and not being able to move on. Many people experience this and donā€™t know what to do with themselves.

This field

Could massively lessened limerence as one will have healthy boundary and emotional regulation. Fascinating.

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@DR_MANHATTAN just out of curiosityā€¦ in most audio programs and video editing programs, there is an option to ā€œfill left channel with right channelā€ which just duplicates the audio channel from the right side and puts it on the left side. this would balance the audio. would this affect the field at all, or make it ineffective for any reason? it would make the audio a little nicer to listen to.

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@criticalmass VLC app in samsung phones doesnt have that option . I havent found it yet.

VLC isnā€™t really an editing software. I meant programs like Premiere, Final Cut, Logic Pro, Pro Tools, etc. But if you donā€™t have those, Iā€™m sure you probably could do it in Audacity which is free

Poweramp has Mono mode in its settings.