Trick for procrastination (push vs pull) and asking for fields suggestion

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@Amber3

What do you base this on?

Cause I’ve worked on both “sides” of this issue for various companies.
The bank/credit card employees are required under punishment of getting fired to “blame” the vendor for this.
And most of the people who you’d be talking to ie. basic customer service reps wouldn’t even know why or how to fix the problem on their end.

@Amber3

I was able to once buy something after going into a private window and using a different email, then the card was blocked again.

Hence showing it’s the bank blocking it. Not gumroad.

@Amber3

I used to do what I called “guilt-free 5 minutes” when I had a lot of pain, where I’d start to do something and told myself that if after 5 minutes I wasn’t able to continue, it was completely fine to stop, no guilt. It worked remarkably well! I was able to tell if it was the fear or the actual pain that kept me from doing it

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@Amber3

I even built an inner command center that is super slick looking and high tech where I can directly affect various body processes like increase dopamine, lower pain, etc.

Similar to the mind palace in Sherlock Holmes?? AMAZING!!!

[Amber3]

I suppose in a way yes! It hadn’t occurred to me like that. A visualisation to act as a device to affect your body rather than remember things it’s really nifty!