What if your Soulmate isn't Human? 👀 (hypothetical speculation)

Spirituality
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Love, a tale as old as Time. In many spiritual traditions, it is said that each of us has a perfect “other half”, the ideal lover for us which has been destined by the stars. They may be called a soulmate, a twin flame, etc.

However, there’s a certain “catch”. Most of us assume our soulmatw would be a human, since we ourselves are. But the problem is, your soulmate is only the soul which is destined for you; whatever form they are incarnated in is not a set rule.

So, what if your soulmate wasn’t human? What if they were a higher-dimensional spiritual entity, or a mythological fairy creature, or even an alien?!

Or, if anyone here does actually happen to have a non-humam soulmate, I’d love to hear about them!

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#2

Lol bro that made me think, what if your soulmate is another human of the same sex but you’re strictly heterosexual? Tricky


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#3

there’s many stories like that.

at that point it would be facing one’s fear that they’re more open sexually than they realized.

this is if ‘soulmate’ in this context means sexual lover

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#4

i remember reading @AnthroTeacher has a soulmate in a higher dimension, check his posts

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#5

All incarnations from your Higher Self are your soul mates. That means all type of constellations are possible male/female/alien etc. and all constellations can take place with the incarnations being in the same physical time and planet or not being in the same physical time and planet. Yes, your Higher Self consists of maybe 1000 to 10000 small soul fragments like you who is reading this right now. And all of those soul fragments are your soul mates/soul brothers/soul sisters.

Also, don’t confuse with Twin Flames, who are soul fragments/incarnations from other Higher Selves, but who are very similiar to you in personality.

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Twin Flames
#6

Sooner or later it arrives, do not worry and pay attention to all the signals coming to you from the Universe, and they are all seeds that are being scattered. And yes, we can also say that they are the dream seeds! :smiley:

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I don’t really believe in soulmates, I think potentially you can be happy with multiple people. Imo the future is not set in stone, you have a goal/purpose which is to learn something but you can get there 100+ ways.
If you choose path A, your “ideal” partner is a different person Vs if you go down path B.
Of course there are certain relationships which are karmic/carry on through multiple incarnations until they’re fully resolved etc, so it’s a bit more complicated than that.
But all in all I do not believe in any of the soulmate/twin flame/soul fragments whatever ideas.
It’s just a nice thing to hope for and believe in.

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#8

which are ultimately mainly labels

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#9

Then it’s your super homie, apostle type, the type of homie you care about just like your spouse and children :man_shrugging:
The type you have 1000 stories with and your kids call uncle/aunt xxx because he’s always at your house or vice versa

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PS: I have no interest in soulmates (saying just in case)

Yeah, but label for something « real » that exist independently from the label.

You can’t « just » dismiss the label to solve a problem, you’ll still be left with the real situation

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#10

However, the method you have written several times in my opinion should not be underestimated; take a hobby, become passionate about something you really like because passion attracts and in that case attracts what you really like.

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#11

The only soulmate I believe in is the relationship one has with oneself. Placing the job of loving you entirely on one singular entity is asking too much of anyone (in my opinion).

In other words its like saying “We are destined to be together so this persons owes me their love”. By assuming it is written in the starts you are taking away the free-will component of love, which is the most important part.

I believe that there are a number of ideal matches for us, which changes as we change. My soulmate 10 years ago wouldnt be the soulmate I would find now because I am a different person than 10 years ago (drastically so).

In western culture marriage is big and it is a part of our programming growing up. We are programmed with the idea that there is only “one” that is meant for us. This leads people to do irrational things like stay in unhappy relationships or have the “if I cant have you, no one can” mentality.

I just personally dont see any positives in holding this idea to be true. Lets say you find the love of your life and they die, some people then feel they are doomed to spend the rest of your life sulking in sadness and depriving themselves the opportunity to love again.

Its a much too obsessive belief for me to adopt, and in my personal life experience this belief can lead otherwise rational people to do some very irrational/immoral actions. To clarify, I personally believe in monogamy, but the idea of eternal monogamy is a little but much for me to believe. It feels too restrictive in a universe of limitless possibilities.

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#12

i face some problem relate to that which is that everyone is my soulmate :rofl:

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#13

My soulmate is my cat.

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#14

What if you are asexual? Do you stil need a soulmate?:rofl::rofl::sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

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#15

Although I had an ex whom I thought to be so, I actually feel my soulmate to be my dog.

From the first moment I saw him. I knew he had to be coming home with me. And it proved quite challenging to be able to adopt him, as reality was conspiring against me.

I think that the soul does not necessarily embody just a human being. And that you see fragments of it throughout your journey here, really.

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#16

Interesting!

I once met a girl whom I’m convinced until today is my twin flame, although we’re not in touch at all.

The curious thing about her was that i never seemed to have sexual thoughts about her and i even noticed when i nudged my thoughts in that direction, they would revert back or dissipate by themselves.

Based on this, i tend to define soulmates rather freely, they’re those people whom you simply get along with ever so nicely.

So in that sense, soulmates can definitely be creatures order than humans

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