Addiction to pornography and its consequences in life

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My recos:

  • Sacral and Base Chakra - sexual energy linked to the sacral chakra.
  • Soul Restoration (core) - restores the lower dantian which has leakages due to arousal.
  • Jing - Fills the Jing (kidney energy) which is lost from sexual thoughts + imagination.
  • Soul Restoration (brow) - restores upper dantian which has leakages due to watching porn.
  • Shen - Fills the Shen which is leaked through the eyes into the screen while watching porn.
  • Dopamine Redux - Resets the brain’s dopamine receptors.
  • Exorcism Rite - Casts out negative entities that may have latched onto you.
  • Curse/Spell Removal - Casts out spells or curses.
  • Divine Love - Fills the sense of void or emptiness that made you use porn to fill up your life. You just want to feel loved and happy, but clearly this method isn’t it. Try unconditional love.
  • Attention and Focus - Usually the mind is slack and low-powered when you try to gain stimulation. Usually you are tired, stressed, bored, etc - these are low-energy states, where you then try to gain a higher arousal state (which you try to use porn for).

The rest is hard work. No other way about it.

If you overload too much energy, try:

  • Transmutation and Microcosmic Orbit
  • Automated Grounding
  • Hakuin Healing Egg

It’s not much about the actual semen, so don’t try to ‘semen retain’. Semen is a useless byproduct with not much energy, it is bija. The actual ojas splits off and is lost. Both bija and ojas comes from the seminal precursor that comes from bone marrow (food → chyle → blood → flesh → fat → bone → marrow → seminal precursor). So the very moment seminal precursor turns into bija and ojas is already too late - that’s the moment when you get sexually aroused in your mind and kickstart the physiological process down there.

*edited to change ‘high energy’ to ‘high arousal’ instead

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#9

Orgasm being the high energy state?

#10

Orgasm is just reaching a shock of the nervous system. The high-arousal state (edited) is just feeling aroused by and feeling preoccupied with sexual fantasies, getting riled up, having stimuli and “something to do”. That feeling of anticipation that is pretty similar to watching a movie for its ‘thrill’. Orgasm is a relative pleasure caused by release of that pressure and pent-up frustration. Due to that sudden release of frustration, the mind freezes for a while. From the sudden cessation of our usually-busy mind, the energy in males leaks through the hui-yin point.

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I’m not too sure about the other details on what happens during sex instead, but I’ve got to ask my friend about it. But yeah, it’s the fact that we hate boredom and feeling like we have nothing to do, and having a low energy state…

For example:

In 11 studies, we found that participants typically did not enjoy spending 6 to 15 minutes in a room by themselves with nothing to do but think, that they enjoyed doing mundane external activities much more, and that many preferred to administer electric shocks to themselves instead of being left alone with their thoughts. Most people seem to prefer to be doing something rather than nothing, even if that something is negative.

^ In this article, people would rather give themselves electric shocks (crazy!) than sit in boredom.

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#11

Here is what helped me from the ‘‘inside’’
Turn Your fantasies into power via transmutation. Yes meditation helps too and videos people have send links helps too. But what if you have tons of ‘‘life energy’’ ^^?
Dont touch yourself, at any cost, and whenever you get the urge or porn flashback, convince yourself that in your current state, or in your current life situation, those will never come ture because ‘‘lack of confidence/motivation/grades/money/fitness’’ etc.
The very important part is to not figthing the urges or simply to not fight your sex drive.
Whenever a fantasy hits, however devious, convice your inner self that if you got better /confidence/money/fitness/ Your fantasies have more % chance of becoming true. Thats actually true when you think of it.
After some days you will be so abudant in energy and yet you have forbided yourself to release
Then imagine and realize that when You will become more succesful in life, whatever goals You might have- Your genes have more chance of spreading and attracting partner= You will have more probability of having sex.
Its actually that simple and all those anexity etc will also disapear I mean thay might still be there but You will just dont fucking care, You just want to smash p***y :smiley:

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#12

My past self can relate to that.

So meditation is being in high energy state coz we like doing it yet we are doing nothing?

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#13

Oh and also dont hate your self and dont hate your body for feeling like that, Your body or lets say your genes just want to life, its just in modern times We have a trouble of adjusting our instincts and vital energies to the all technology and modern society we live in.
You are perfectly fine, just bamboozled :smiley:

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#14

Okay my bad, I had a bad word selection… I mean physically aroused state with a lot of frustration and stress, in a fight-or-flight mode. That’s what I mean by a ‘high energy state’. I should probably reword that to ‘high arousal state’ instead.

Meditation is different. It’s the complete opposite where you are not doing anything at all. And when you drop all thoughts, you stop ‘spending your energy’ maintaining those thought constructs. All the reification drops away over time and because your energy doesn’t leak into maintaining thought structures, physiological functions… etc. Hence, it leads to more energy.

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#15

Great!

More motivation to keep on meditating

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#17

What is a better motivator for you, fear or inspiration? This isnt rhetorical, it really depends on the person. It could even be a mix of the two. There is no “right” or “wrong” answer there.

I think a healthy mix of the 2 can work really well. Wake-up and look in the mirror and say

“This is where I was headed, thank goodness I’m not down that path anymore”
then follow it up with a
“This is where I am heading now, thank goodness I am in control of my life”

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#18

Fear is the most powerful motivator. Somebody told me that masturbation makes you recede hairline and after that day I never masturbated. Because I had a major fear of losing hair

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#19

:joy: :joy: :joy: :joy: :joy:

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#20

Same is when i was addicted to eating junk food. And when I reasearched that when you eat all of the junk it stays in your system for 7 days and then BOOM never ate junk food.

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#21

It really is a good motivator.

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#22

Indeed. See this real example, for people who have chronic masturbation habit:
For such people can they masturbate in a public road? Do you need to force your mind to stop yourself from masturbating outside in public? It is simple: Fear of Punishment/shame stops you.
Fear is a powerful motivator.
What if you pee blood next time you masturbate, would you dare to do that again now?

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#23

Well, I don’t think so, people are demonizing masturbation very recently, I was radical and wanted to stop masturbating, but I realized that life is one, well there’s reincarnation and everything, but this life is just one , and celibacy I don’t think is the best way to enjoy it, whether masturbation is natural or not does it really matter? Questions like whether it is conscious or unconscious really matter? I’m totally in favor of treating addictions for sure, but I don’t think anyone needs to abstain forever, unless they plan to be a monk, the big problem with masturbation is that it triggers a disease called post orgasmic disease syndrome, where some people they develop mental fog, tiredness, pain, and many other problems, the first step is to find out if you suffer from this disease, that said I don’t think it causes hair loss, the excess may cause you to fall because you may be without nutrients, say that masturbation hair loss is to say that sex also causes, because we ejaculate in sex, again we get into the biggest problem that is exaggeration.

#24

Gracias a todos por sus sugerencias. Debo contarles que empeze a usar brain regeneration y la niebla mental empezo a disiparse. Cabe resaltar que antes habia usado mejora permanente del cerebro pero no note cambios tan buenos como los que estoy teniendo ahora (brain regeneration). Ademas, uso jing restoration y siento que estoy lleno de energia ademas siento que mi fuerza se multiplico porque hago ejercicio sin cansarme como cuando era niño. Eso es todo el reporte por ahora. Cambio y fuera.

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#25

Nice to hear you are getting better. I also started a similar thread to yours. Your words reminded me myself.

#26

My friends your not the only one that has a succubus demon in our life ,that’s the worst thing ,and i all started since child hood i use to make holes to dolls lol ,that’s why I am sure that’s succubus demon ,try to clean your self and use ojas audio ,and ancient art album ,with overcome addiction audio

#27

I wonder if this are available through the gumroad as a download?

#28

Energetic Alchemy fields (like the Dopamine Redux) are usually available through iTunes, Amazon Music and Spotify.

There’s the Overcome Any Addiction: Dopamine Receptor Repair & Addiction Healing field on Patreon, if you’d like.

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