My mum approached my dad. Just saying lol
And he was a nerdy medical student (pretty similar looking to me when he was my age).
But yeah, I wanna have that magnetism that some people seem to have. I would say Iām already kinda likeable but Iād like to be overwhelmingly magnetic (Iāll do the approaching, no problem).
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I get what you mean. I donāt want to mind control women or override their free will. Deep down, I know that Iām worthy enough to get any woman (or at least have the qualities to become that person with a little bit of time and effort). Itās just that I want my first impression to be as powerful as possible (with magnetism or whatever audios). My current no fap streak is 73 days btw.
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Iām fine with that. Iāll talk to them.
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Confidence doesnāt always get you girls. Youāve gotta have some reciprocation from them or thereās simply nothing you can do.
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I feel you bro. Iāve had times where I wasnāt really that physically attracted to the girl but as I got to know her, I was like, ādamn, I want her nowā.
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Are you sure? I mean what are you going to do if sheās on her phone? Grab her phone off of her?
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This thread isā¦ one of the most interesting stuff Iāve read so far on the forum :)) You guys are sweet.
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Youāve got a point. Personally if I were in that situation and Iād just sit there and stare at her till she noticed my gaze and then Iād say, āsomething important?ā (with an exaggerated tone).
Donāt know what the archetypal confident male would do. I switch between extreme confidence and insecurity and Iām everything packed into one so I donāt know what I come under.
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We should have asked Sammy to create that men-only lounge. 
You say āexcuse meā if you feel really attracted to her playing on her phone.
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Hmm. If I were going that route, Iād say excuse me madam, is it okay if I talk to you? I exaggerate everything lol
Hmm donāt really have any influences at the moment though. All of these thoughts are entirely my own. Wouldnāt meditating just amplify these? Also what is bad in them specifically?
Yes. 100%
Nobody else I know thinks like this.
Depends on the meditation. Mostly, it is to silence your mind.
That being said, I disagree with Owl. I think talking about these things is how you learn, but you still gotta practice what you learn.
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For everyone on this forum, Iāve never been a typical āgoodā or āniceā guy. Good and bad are relative anyway. But I have certain thoughts and ideas that would shock the typical āniceā person.
Itās never my intention to hide these things from anyone although unfortunately I always end up coming across as a typical good guy at the start. Only to eventually disappoint them with my āevilā side.
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Just wanna get your perspective because Iām genuinely curious. What did I say that made me look bad?
Nothing.
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Confidence solves like 90% of the problems if you want a girl. Just get that fucking mandala bro. Game is just a side effect of confidence.
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I suppose it is. Iāll be wearing it regularly after I get hold of it.
Btw I have some other mandalas as well namely: Thor, Productivity, Lion, Higher Self, Kitsune, Fairy and Inner Beauty Reflected Outward mandala. What do you recommend I wear? Iām a medical student who has to study a lot and Iād also like to have a good social life at the moment.
Confidence for studying, confidence for partying.
Maybe productivity if you want a bit of boost for studying.
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