I do not think that men do not have a keen intuition, most of my friends have a very keen intuition, I think the big problem is the focus, exactly as you said the man is very visual, more visual than the woman, I believe that this makes the intuition numb and in the background, kind of abandoned, and because the woman is less visual it leaves him more free to explore this ability.
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Yeah, women can explain how they feel as they are somewhat non visual.
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I second this as well. Maybe itâs just a random phase unrelated to the audios, but I do feel less sex drive.
I agree and Iâve come to think itâs fine as long as feelings are not absent. A combination of both makes sense to me.
If you wanna go for the eyes, there are breast and butt enlargement videos on Youtube and I guarantee itâll work on a massive percentage of men.
If you wanna glow in hearts, go with the soul audios.
That being said, I think both should be present. (butt/breast reference was just a joke, referencing the physical looks).
Guys, maybe you are willing to take a girlâs point of view on dating into consideration as well.
First of all, there was a long walk of text by SammyG at one point about banana enlargement and everything in it is pure gold (I know this thread is not about that, but his input wasnât really either, much more generic). If you havenât read it, I would recommend it.
Second, a lot of the first impression comes down to signalling. For girls it is the same. When you make an effort in your appearance, it automatically pays off.
For girls itâs the hair and make up (walking the line of nice but not too much), shoes (high heels turn more heads), the clothes. When a girl is wearing a lot of make up, very high heels, super short skirt etc., Itâs a signal that she wants to receive certain kind of attention, certain kind of man. When she wears more elegant clothes, more polished style, itâs a signal for another kind of man.
Something like this exists also for men. You signal with how much perfume youâre wearing, with the hairstyle, with the body (muscle / lean / chubby), with the way you dress, everything.
I would recommend you to look at all this in in your life honestly, think about what youâre projecting now, then think about what you need to change to attract the type of girl you want (of course, this requires you to think about what âthose girlsâ would be attracted to).
If you donât think it matters that much, I recommend you to watch orphan black, where the same woman plays about 10 different characters and the vibe / attractiveness is completely different, even though itâs the same person.
The same way men are attracted more to looks, women are attracted more to STATUS on an evolutionary level. Why? Because in a relationship women are more vulnerable.
Having children is extremely taxing. It is taxing on a womanâs body and health, then caring for a baby requires a whole person, and with a newborn you are vulnerable. So you need a man that can protect you. This is the background of conventional attractiveness of âtall+strong+confidentâ.
Now these days, while physical capabilities are still important, money gives you even more security, as you are sure to have stability with the baby if the guy can provide.
Now, confidence.
About the she is on the phone example⌠Please donât stare her down. :D
If itâs a girl who is always on the phone, and doesnât seem interested in you, I think best to move on. youâll find and deserve someone who actually pays attention.
If you donât want to walk away - do not intimidate her please. If someone did that to me it would make me uneasy in a bad way. Dominance when youâre talking to a girl is not the same as when youâre talking to a guy.
I think the right way to handle this is to ask if everything is okay, as she seems preoccupied or make a light-hearted joke. And dude, if she is looking at memes, please walk away. I think the only acceptable texting is for something urgent or if there is a problem. If she is being really rude, donât be afraid to the her so.
A few additional things, where I think a lot of guys make a mistake.
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Donât be too eager to please. You need to create some sort of exciting tension between the two of you. If youâre always polite, always agreeable, itâs boring. Do not be rude of course, but show who you are, voice your opinion, donât be afraid to disagree with her. You donât have to like what she likes, you donât have to pretend youâre interested in whatever. Be yourself. Be kind, have some interesting questions for the awkward silences, find out who she is and show her who you are.
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Create distance
You chat up a girl at a party (RIP parties) and you like her, she laughs at your joke, nice first impression, all going well. It depends on the situation of course, but most of the time, you need to walk away for a bit. ( This applies if you can go back of course). See if she gives you some looks, give her some looks, smile, approach her again later. Basically once you raised some interest, give her some space to breath. Iâve had countless of experiences where for the last 5 minutes I was looking for an excuse to get rid of the guy who I liked first, but then it became a bit awkward, since we are strangers after all (why is this guy glued to me??). Let things flow naturally. -
Be decisive
Confidence and dominance comes down to this a bit. I had a bf who thought he was dominant but then it was always âup to youâ. Ehh⌠can you make a decision already?? Why do I have to decide everythingâŚ
Know what you want, know where you want to take her and why.
The eternal question of where to eat⌠phrase it like this: âdo you have a preference what to order? If you donât, iâll order either X or Yâ. -
Donât rush it
Even if youâre really into someone, telling them on the first date that you feel like youâve known them forever and theyâre your soulmate is probably a bad idea. (This has happened both to me a d a friend recently so no itâs not only girls who do this)
Actually thinking about it, one of the most magnetic men I knew was really good at the tension creation, I think thatâs why he has had so much success with women.
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I saw that lol
Some, maybe⌠if theyâre not capable of reading the irony hidden under the words âinterestingâ and âsweetâ. I like you Owl, but donât waste my precious time by responding to my messages with such brilliant replies.
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@MonkeyOwl Thanks, thatâs some real dedication to contribute.
Whatâs up with the spider senses? I suppose itâs difficult to describe something intuitive, but any effort would be appreciated.
Yeah Iâm not sure how to describe it :D
Personally the way I can describe myself is that I donât like dating apps because I probably would not have swiped right on the people Iâve fallen for. Looks are important of course, but when I meet someone, the feeling I get from the interaction overwrites ~90% of looks. Itâs probably a combination of everything - the way the guy carries himself, the tone of his voice, his smell,.the handshake, the eyes and the overall energy.
I can give you an example about the energy. I was on holiday with extended family + some friends of friends in the area. There was a man, nice family guy, there with kids and wife, who made me feel super uneasy. I was about 16. I remember he never did or said anything inappropriate, he was always friendly, not overly either⌠but I felt like the way he was looking at me or just the vibes I got from him were creeping me out.
On the way home we were discussing this with my aunt and some other women and we all agreed he gave us strange vibes. There was a guy in the group who was defending him saying he liked him and he was so friendly,.and didnât do anything to deserve this. Which is technically true, but all the women in the group got the same feeling independently.
Specifically about the audioâŚI would have to meet a guy before - after, haha :D but I can imagine it makes you be more noticed.
To be honest, it also works the other way around - havenât you had the experience where maybe someone was not your type but still you found them sexually attractive?
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I think i know why that happened after reading what you mentioned. There can be so many reasons, one of them is may be was not grounded enough and kept his emotions hidden in his chest, may be he was trying to OR was thinking about getting something whether an emotional response or something else. This this creeps out most of women. Grounding is so important with women. Second reason could be the body language.
He was true as he didnât see anything wrong with that guy because he didnât feel what you did. As men are not emotional craetures.
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Did you use the audio and felt any difference in attraction from opposite sex ? im curious
Thanks for your thoughts!
I wish I could describe how foreign this is to me, and most men. But I have realized itâs something we can develop too. Some alchemical teachings are aimed at men making their unconscious female part conscious, and women making their unconscious masculine part conscious. Iâd say your kind is a bit further in that progress considering the feminist movement since the 50s.
lol. Thatâs the ultimate curse of men. Most of my friends and I have punched a wall at least once for that reason.
And for the audio, I wouldnât say it was anything sexual. My random experience was more like this on my end
She: wth is there
Me: wth is she staring at
She: wtf (either keeps staring or looks away after sensing whatever she sensed feets away)
I havenât used this one.
However, my issues with relationships are somewhere else, not with getting attention or going on dates, so Iâm not sure it is comparable.
I will get this eventually, but I just bought 5 tags and am mainly listening to the vibes + now mind settings, so step by step :D
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Haha :D
But why? I mean if youâre attracted, whatâs the issue? Even if certain body part is not ideal, if the attraction is there, why not go for it?
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Work on your pineal gland for a while and that goes away. You get some foresight and it integrates into your desires.
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This has so many answers, some deeply spiritual, but Iâll go with the simplest and no-brainer one; Itâs obvious it wonât go anywhere and sheâs somewhat nuts, the man cannot command his sexual urges and loses all his masculinity into a toxic relationship for both sides. Women often have more expectations than heâd like to provide, but heâs helplessly willing to continue in a chaos. Really sick situation actually.
Thanks, but actually what helped in my case was the root/sacral work.
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Ahh okay, I was imagining someone who is like⌠Just a below average looking but nice girlâŚ
Oh I thought you meant a sexually attractive woman with a personality not compatible with the manâs character.
Iâd now take the average looking nice girl any day. It took about 30 years to figure that out.
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Just what I meant.
Good girl, I agree 100%!
How about on MeWe?
How is this audio decreasing sex drive? I thought this replenished sexual energy