Relationship Mindset:
Perhaps this can be the most important aspect of the field. While self-awareness is an encouraged process, it does not come into fruition without a powerful force of action or a driving force that constantly pushes these changes. This part introduces concepts that are crucial to a healthy relationship. The field uses the techniques present in “Mind Settings” Album to create a permanent and long lasting effect on the user for a solid foundation of a healthy relationship mindset.
Forgiveness of Love
When partners are emotionally and mentally prepared for the deep healing that will bring them closer together over time, it will be easier to build a nourishing and vibrant environment. Mature love is a commitment to supporting each other’s happiness, it is forgiveness for all what love has caused, and an intention basked in the gradient sun rays of love to be open to experience all what it is.
One can feel love for another, but also have a variety of attachments that block their appreciation for the amazing connection that is right in front of them.
Attachments represent our inflexibility, it is the rock that stands in our flow of love, it is our survivalist tendencies that we gathered along the road of our life.
One can be in love and also unprepared to care for that love.
This Mindset part is meant to work with, but not limited to, the Secure Attachment, a branch of the Attachment theory, this part addresses the mental aspect of it, as well as induce and instill new concepts that elevate and refine your relationship experience, for a healthier, long lasting relationship.
A main concept that this part focuses on is Mental Boundaries, as we allow ourselves to get caught up with the stream of negative thoughts, one can lose itself in the process and thus create more attached energies to the cycle of negativity. The field introduces such concepts to the user so as to provide a sense of willful control over the thinking loops of the mind.
Suggested frameworks like 12-Step Philosophy propose the following as an outline of Self Concept-Relationship imbalances:
Internal unmanageability:
This manifests itself as emotional volatility in which personal unmanageability can be spotted. This is a predominant reflection of the inability to control emotional natures, where one can often fall into misery and depression. It can also be seen in the pattern of chaotic relationships and fear of abandonment.
God-Shaped Hole:
It is the absence of the self identity or a confused sense of self that is often always in the search for the answer; the right person that would make everything alright.
Self-will run riot:
This is characterized by impulsive behaviors and often are a sign of behavioral dysregulation. The proposal of the philosophy offers a different perspective: “Any life that is run on self will can hardly be a success. On that basis, We are almost always in collision with somebody even though our motives are good”.
Mental bankruptcy:
It is the state where one is a prisoner in their own mind, often guilt is the hidden emotion here. This can appear as dissociative responses and/or paranoid ideation. This is also another sign of disconnection and dismissal of the emotional body.
Other Modalities also include:
The Blame Cycle:
Beneath the layer of this dynamic, there lies frustration, helplessness, powerlessness, and aloneness in the blamer, or a longing for communication that is poorly expressed. Chronic blaming is a serious form of emotional abuse that is often found in partnerships.
Inside the Circle: What Really Happens?
In our childhood, blame is a natural occurrence for things we could not control. Like leaving the toys out, or a loud fun child time, or even bigger occurrences like families divorce. For the blamee, they often feel confused, bewildered, and also helpless, often going into their shell, unable to speak up, as it brings constant criticism for the blamee. Such dynamic is often cleared up through the blamer taking the “risk” of being more open and communicative. From this, trust has a chance to build - the pursuer blames less because there is more contact from the avoider who is now speaking up more. Positive cycles begin to form and the relationship regenerates trust and connection once again. As the blamee starts to build more trust, the cycle is repatterned and shifted into a more positive approach of responsibility and expression.
The Victim Mentality:
When we have a victim mentality, we see the world through a lens of good versus bad. We are the innocent person, and the bad things are outside of ourselves.You might also blame many things on unfairness. At its heart, victim mentality is a coping mechanism.
A Child World Underneath
Often it is from childhood trauma. In effect, it is a mechanism that relieves one of the responsibility, and often grants them attention, as well as the right to complain. Underneath this, there is a hidden anger that is masked by being sad or upset at the ‘uncontrollable’ surroundings. One can break the cycle with ownership, taking responsibility, relying less on external validation that is gained through people’s attention and offered help, and refining their self-concept of one’s own power.
The Relationship between Giving and Receiving:
This is often referred to as the money bank in different models of relationship theories. A bucket that is full of love, in the form of contribution, will have to use its resources, and at the same will have to fill its resources back to remain full. The key here is to always be attentive to how much the bucket is carrying at the moment, a realization of the importance of the ways you are able to fulfill your partner’s needs. Collaboration, attentiveness, and openness to give, as well as openness to receive are high value qualities that continue to fuel the shared love of the couple.
Comparison Between Partners:
In the observant eyes of the natural human, we are often quicker to note the differences between us and other people, where they stand and the advancement gap that is between one and another. In relationships, this can be one of the quickest ways to end a partnership. Comparison between couples often breaks the team spirit between the couple and the commitment to witnessing our partner’s individual growth. When this is replaced by enrichment, your partner’s positive qualities are now inspiring you, as you see those qualities reflecting on your relationship, one can also tune in into gratitude and appreciation, for luck has drawn a person who exudes the qualities that you wish for, presented now as a way to learn and appreciate the various qualities a person, and a partner can have.
in the Layers of Comparison
When we feel that our partners are jealous of our growth and always bringing us down, we tend to display less and less of those special abilities that we have, it stunts our growth and harms our expression. When we impose our control through a captured self-development of our partner, it leaves us to the illusion of superiority, and only in an environment of shared individual growth can a couple truly flourish and ripen, as they elevate their relationship through each partner’s gifted and learned abilities.
Individual Growth:
If we grew up in an environment where our autonomy is considered threatening to our caregivers, we grow up into life thinking that our partner’s presence in the box of behaviors and ideas that we have shaped them in is also threatening to our relationship.
Change: The Beginning of our Adult Life.
We have the life-long journey of our life on this Earth, presented to us as a way to grow and learn. An understanding of the natural role of life in evolving is crucial for the growth of our relationships. Change can be scary on us humans, and while it is understandable, a commitment to inner growth that changes our experience of the world is exponentially rewarding for our partners, and by extension, to our relationships.
Team Spirit:
One of the beautifully uplifting spirits relationships can have is their sense of togetherness. There is where unity is, a collaboration of power, shared efforts, and mutual support between the couple. When we “partner up” in our relationships, the hard shells of our challenges melt away, as both partners share an intentional will in going through life as one unified balance of power. This requires an intentional effort in going about topics like finances, sex, and emotional intimacy.and a strong willingness to share the teamwork as one; stepping power fights and inflexibilities of beliefs aside.
Power Imbalances:
This is meant to shape the end to power struggles once and for all, through an introduction of concepts and melting away of the core reasons that people find themselves grabbing the next wand of power, wrongful authority, and control. An introduction of a new comfort and security in one’s skin, an openness to vulnerability, and understanding of a new humble presence. This part also works on the sensitivity towards such attitudes as it introduces new ways and concepts of how one can not be stripped off their inner power, as well as tactfully wiser ways to secure their ground. A release of feeling threatened and a gained ability of working through similar situations.An establishment of boundaries that prevents these occurrences.
Chaos and Order– A pursuit of establishment
Using models that suggest the relationship between chaos and order in establishment of communication, the field aims to rebalance the sensory inputs that states of chaos or order carry to the user, as well as their relationship to the possible harmony that comes across threatening otherwise. The field also touches on ‘self value’ contributions that the user finds pertaining, and can only be heard, expressed, or valid in the environment of chaos or order, as opposed to shared harmony and balance.
Abundance Mindset:
The idea here is to reenact the emotional fulfilment coming from a deep knowing and presence of the abundance of love.
An Abundance of Love:
As we feel the Love present, we move away from the states of constantly looking for love, or waiting for its arrival. Instead, we look around and find it everywhere. It is omnipresent in our surroundings, in the people we share the love with, and in our daily interactions. When we feel abundant in love, we are more likely to act in the ways that attract love to us, we are less likely to repel it, or act in ways that communicate the absence of love we think we have.
The Secure Attachment:
Attachment theory is based on the first relationship that a child has, and how that relationship influences the child’s mental development. As we grow up, we display patterns of attachments that we have learned in our childhood with our partners, as a safe space that we know of, and as our first instinct of displaying love. When our childhood needs of security, calmness, and understanding are provided, our nervous system is regulated, as our interactions with the people surrounding us also grows in regulation.
Finding Security in Love
Attachment is often a concept that is often frowned upon, and only when we come to understand that the conflicting variation of how we display our attachment is when problems arise, we begin to migrate and shift ourselves into what a secure form of attachment is. It is interesting how the seeds of it start with non-verbal communication with our parents, as it suggests the basis of these formations in the very early years of our childhood, before our awareness shapes its understanding, and in the years of our highest suggestibility. Children who formed a secure attachment with their parents reflect a solid foundation of healthy self-awareness, eagerness to learn, empathy and relating to people, self-trust, as well as a heightened ability of trusting others. They also react well to stress, are willing to try new things independently, and able to form stronger intrapersonal relationships. They are also superior problem solvers, as problems are not threatening to them, suggesting a normal brain function and receptivity in times of conflict. Not heightened, lowered, or ‘keeping up’ as the brain is likely to react in others who form different types of attachments early on in their life.
The Secure Attachment part is meant to address all what constructs and creates a healthy individual that is able to form secure attachments with the world around them, it is not limited to behavioral or mental characteristics but meant to be addressed conceptually as a whole.
The Breakup Protocol:
This part is meant to address past relationships and ending one, as it aims to cut the cords of all relationships that the user has been through, while leaving the user with gratitude and appreciation for the lessons they learned and the time shared, as it eases moving on from relationships and releases any identity associations with the past relationships, or with their red flags. This part also calls on all the soul energy that is lost as it aims for soul retrieval, specifically focused on past relationships only.
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