Interesting how you say it now.
Because, in my personal opinion, this is a completely different goal than “getting married”.
Marriage is a social construct and a contract with a Third Party, i.e. the state. Aiming for marriage is aiming for a contract with the state and executing an artificial social construct.
You can call it “culture” if you want so… but yeah, in that sense I am “uncultured” because I don’t blindly do and believe what most of society does or strives for.
But it (marriage) has nothing really to do with love or a “committed, loving relationship”. Neither is “marriage” required in order to build a “real connection” with someone.
Why do I say that these two are completely different goals?
Because a potential partner will always subconsciously sense what your endgoal is and will react accordingly:
Sensing that it is all about the “marriage” tells the potential partner that it is not about him in the first place and that he is just a means to the end.
Which is the exact opposite of a “real deep relationship”!
If your endgoal is “marriage”, then potential partners will sense that it is not about them but about fullfilling an idea inside your head. A really deep relationship with someone would never ask for, demand for or focus on “getting married”. Instead, getting married would occur as a natural consequence of the already deep relationship.
This is just my personal opinion.
In another thread you wrote this:
So you say that you have identified the specific blockages that prevent the manifestation of someone wanting to marry you. Therefore, in this case, to reach your goal, you would need to specifically work on these “blockages” that you have identified (whatever those may be).
Anyways, I recommend you focus on manifesting the “deep relationship”, not the “marriage”. Because relationships are actually real, whereas marriage contracts are all just temporary human contracts and paper. Potential partners can sense what you really want in the end.
And maybe also ask yourself why that what you want to manifest, has necessarily to follow the “current social culture” and why you identify a “real connection with someones” with this artificial cultural construct in the first place?
From a male perspective I can also tell you, that any smart man, will sense whether you want him for a real relationship and a deep real connection or whether you want him to “finally marry you”.
And a woman wanting a marriage contract is the biggest turn-off I can think off. Because it shows to me that she cares about an idea in her head more than she cares about me. Even if that may not be true, this is the impression it gives off. And that impression will make most smart man shy away from marriage completely.
If you don’t change the focus of your end goal, potential partners might continue to get the same impression again and again and feel that it is not about them and the relationship. Just saying, subconsciously people always can sense what the other person’s real intent is. Therefore, the advice to forget about marriage completely and focus on manifesting a truly deep and real relationship.