Essence of beauty: A male's perspective

Hello,

So like the title says, I plan on making this my journal or a testimonial of the the results of the essence of beauty pendant, from what I have seen it’s mostly women that are getting it so I thought it would be interesting to see what it does if a guy wears it(if the pendant is women only please let me know so I can take it off). I’m going to breakdown my results as incidents and probably won’t update regularly unless something that is out of the norm happens. Some background information about me: I would classify myself as an above average looking guy so I get looks here and there so I won’t be counting these as incidents

First Impression: looks more feminine than I expected but I’m wearing it under my shirt so it shouldn’t matter. The moment I wore it it gave me this very powerful feeling of confidence which was overwhelming especially since I was at home working, but it wore off or rather became more balanced after an hour.

Incident 1: I wore it when I went out tonight, this girl made this excuse about looking for someone to talk to me while I was sitting at the table in a bar which is unusual, I did get approached before but it would happen if I was standing close to a girl, but she went out of her way to talk to me.

Incident 2: Same place as incident 1, this guy that I say hi to every week was more kind, like he was genuinely interested in me and told me about what’s going on in his life, usually we just say hi, some small talk and move on.

Incident 3: different place but same night, this girl walked up close to me, usually when I see her she says hi and stops me but this time it’s like she didn’t recognize me and gave me this weird surprised look? I’m not sure how to take it but I’m assuming I look different to her, also she wanted to have a convo with me and leave the guy she was this which is definitely unlike her.

That’s all that happened for today, I’ll try approaching some women tomorrow and try to gauge by their reaction what I look like to them.

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Kinda the same experience when I wear my inner beauty mandala which I made it into a pendant and sealed it with resin. The mandala is one year old. And when I wear it people both female and male always lurking at me for no reason. This happened before I know all of fame sigil or anything. I was pure using that mandala alone for months. And some of my relative which is quite rare for him to act like that to me. He looked at me like I’m a child and just gave me that happy presence. You know when adult see a baby. You just want to hold it if the baby is cute enough. That’s what I got. From the experience. But also I did use attract love audio too.

The attract love is working very good with my dad. It’s weird that he act like how I was like a baby. Not being bitter. Just like very loving. Even asking me how i am ect. But the effect fade if I’m not continuing for a week.

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Wonder why it has to be considered as women only! It’s for anyone.
Maybe the pendant mostly looks feminine, I had it as customised bracelet a year back.

The reason I own it , mainly for professional purpose, Charisma and attraction is needed.
Using it for more than 10 months, Field is very subtle.

People usually don’t complement when someone is already good looking. Kinda psychological.

After wearing this field, there is definitely more attention towards us, and people are more open about complementing for good looks.

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So you use fame sigil? Can you share your experience?

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yes, friends! beauty is for everyone!

so happy to see more threads on my favourite morphic field.

:smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

that is a good point!

in the beginning, i definitely had many complements on my looks.

after that, i had a few ‘criticisms’ that i brushed off with ease and grace.

i was really surprised because someone close to me told me ‘you have your looks’ in the way that i would have said to someone i found beautiful, but in a matter of fact way.

@gdplex

glad you’re experiencing results!

beauty is forever, so i am happy to have mine that i could probably keep as a family heirloom to pass on to one of my siblings’ children.

:rose:

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To me when I use it people tend to ask you that you remind them of someone. Like they know you somewhere. If you go out if you walk toward crowds they will all mostly turn heads and just wondering why you there. At least that’s what I experience. Also the sigil work online too but not too much. It’s lot more in real life. I don’t currently use it now. I need to focus on other things especially with confidence. But I boosted my fame sigil 6 times. And kinda regret doing it.

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So how exactly do you act when wearing it? I probably will have to adjust the way I act towards people when I wear it depending on how I’m viewed, just like if you were wearing an dominant mandala or tag that naturally would make people avoid you so you might have to act more open.

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Personally, it hardly affects how I act.
It’s more of perception I guess. I’m my greatest critique of my looks. After wearing it, when I look myself in mirror, I tend to focus more on my positive than perceived flaws.
Field has already given you positive experience. So you know it works. Just work on your confidence. Most Women just give signs and hints, you gotta take lead from there with confidence. Field only gains attention, we gotta work on it.
As mentioned, it has zero physical changes. So I had to work on my insecurities no matter what.
It’s effect is so subtle, that I don’t act any differently. Thor mandala, androstenol or confidence field have such effects. Not this one, at least not to me.

Only after @anon25711007 mentioning it, I recollect similar incidents. People tend to ask the same question. Kinda familiar face feel it gives them. Tend to stare at you longer.

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As men, we have very narrow standards of male handsomeness.
We just care about muscles, hairline, and how endowed we are down there.
It’s not the same way how women view.

For example, When we get fit and toned, we feel confident about ourselves. We appreciate ourselves. That reflects in our attitude and personality. It is that which attracts.
In my college days, I see my friends with average standards of beauty getting along with girls well. Not muscles, not some model like looks and all,. But those guys are really comfortable with who they are, they have very less insecurities about themselves. That confidence and attitude attracts.

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i thought it doesnt effect actaul looks just what people thought about u

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so I was feeling pretty bad with anxiety or what I thought was anxiety, I would end up getting really nervous and start sweating whenever I’m outside if it’s slightly warm or even cold, turns out I had some hormonal imbalance so when I listened to endocrine audio, it pretty much is almost gone, I’m debating if I should listen to it twice a day very other day or just do it everyday until it’s gone, I know this is isn’t relevant to the essence of beauty tag but it could help someone who is going through a similar thing and in a way it helped me better be myself in the moment.

Back to the tag effects, ended up going to new barber, my old one was off, the barber really took care of me and I honestly can say I look good, tried to flirt a couple of times but not my cup of tea, besides you’d be crazy to mess with your barber cause the day you piss them off is the day my beard will be gone :laughing: :laughing:. there is only one incident that happened today that was relevant, this girl came all the way from where she was sitting and told us to come and stay with them, granted she was inebriated and I tend to stay away from drunk girls, it never ends well but it is interesting as me and my friend weren’t really doing anything that would invite attention.

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Another update( different area than usual/vacation spot):

  1. Older woman approached me and caressed my face mind you I was sweaty( it’s a hot state where this happened) and told me I was adorable
  2. Friend challenged me to go talk with this girl and at first I thought it was going nowhere until suddenly her attitude completely changed and it was going well until her guy got there(didn’t know she was with a guy/she didn’t tell me either)
  3. kind of a club setting, girl sat at my table basically and waited for me to talk to her.

These things all happened in this state I was visiting, I tend to sweat alot in hot/humid environments which is something I need a field for(already tried endocrine and anxiety, it helps but not enough to solve it) so I can imagine how I looked.

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this is normal, i wouldn’t worry too much about it. sweating is your body’s way of balancing your temperature and detoxing. if you’re not already, stay hydrated with water!

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I do appreciate the sentiment but the sweating is it’s a little excessive in relation to the activity I’m doing, I can tell by the people around me aka my friends, the amount I do sweat in the same environment doing nothing is ridiculous compared to them, I do believe there is an underlying issue whether it’s genetic or something else but I’m still in the process of figuring that out.

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Gotta a new update for y’all

I can’t fully attribute it to the beauty tag as I’m also wearing matchmaker in addition to listening to some subliminal for self improvement and the attract women from maitreya fields but I’m really liking this tag, I don’t even wear it, just keep it on me. But I don’t even really try, it’s like I can sit next to a girl and within a few minutes I can tell she tries to convince herself to talk to me and then most of the time she does it, or just stares at me so I get the hint haha. I actually offered to take this girl home because she lived close to me and I guess to her that meant I’m going with her tonight, nothing like that has happened to me before, and you can guess what happened next :angel:. I do wish it helped me more with confidence and self-image as I struggle with that part still but I’m working on it.

Another thing that I noticed was that I see a woman’s inner beauty? , I was never a shallow person but now I can see more when I see a woman, like her vibe, the way she carries herself, I’m also more compassionate in general with everyone and I can see it reflecting on the way I interact with people.

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:+1:t2:

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and it’s working on you. give it some time, my friend. this is why i like tags. sure you don’t notice it right away at times, but the effects feel more permanent for me and builds on what’s there.

:rose:

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Yeah, I know but it’s just frustrating, like how long will I keep healing for? I know I potentially missed on some amazing connections and opportunities because of my issues which is why I decided to take the self-improvement path, but it just seems the more I heal the more issues I find. It’s disheartening sometimes

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if you mean healing your confidence and self-image, i would reframe that perspective.

to me, it sounds like you want to find more opportunities to practice your confidence and build on your self-image.

train yourself to let go of the past and accept it for what it is. your power is in the present and what you do with it affects your future.

find ways to be among people. find meetup groups, volunteer, find a part-time job, etc.

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So it takes some time to work? Coz I’m not feeling any different yet. It’s been a week’