It is a balancing act. But here I’m leaning more into talking about the judging side of things. Is judging pre-hate? Pre-approved hate? Lol. Idk, maybe. But too little judgment can hurt you. And too much can hurt others.
I’ve had to up the judgment into the zone of wisdom. Too much benefit of the doubt for people by my default nature. But I may be just beginning to find that place where I have to pull it back some. Lower it a little.
Because a passive aggressive covertly hostile old man I met today, just like so many where I live, on second meeting and with a second look, may just have been a kind old man after all.
To make sense of that, think of the kind of false kindness that passive aggressive people use to thinly veil condescension.
I’ve given the wrong people a pass plenty of times until I set my vision straight about them. But let me never become those people in my movements towards not being susceptible to them.
A little off topic maybe. But I came here looking for a thread for haters. Now I see I misread or overlooked the real title. Fields for Haters… right. You already said it best I think @SoulStar33 . Unless Sapien drops a repel haters field someday. Don’t we hate because we are hated? But then… where do all the haters of the unhateful come from?