How to handle extreme porn addiction?

Guys I dont know what to do anymore I was very long on NoPMO and Nofap and then after relapsing the addiction became much worse I want to quit but everytime the urges are so strong I just dont know what to do. The addiction field and brain regeneration help a bit bit they are regenerating the dopamine receptors and I think thats the reasons why the urges get stronger, because my brain can produce more dopamine maybe. I just dont know what to do anymore. Why has God created this(the possibility to watch porn and get seduced into sth that I dont want from my free will? )
Why is there aomething like that in life? Why did nobody tell me before?

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How do we grow and expand without overcoming challenges with our free will in a world of duality?

Here are some must use fields:

Etheric Cord Cutter
Soul Restoration (Core)
Internal Alchemical Crucible
The Devil Reversed
Transmutation & Microcosmic
Ojas Refined & Defined

Some other things you can do:

Meditation, prayer, and pranayama exercises. You can’t just let the sexual energy sit stagnant. Be active, do creative activities (art, music, writing, etc) , listen to classical music, pronounce mantras or use The Essence of Mantras from Dream Seeds, exercise.

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On one hand I want to get rid of watching porn, on Another Hand, I kind of like it.

#Undecidedaboutporn

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Wait until you become more energy sensitive.

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I don’t think God created the internet. Just animals and people. I sometimes wonder if we completely wasted the potential of the creation. We made tech that we seem to find far more useful than animals but maybe we missed the point of what animals are capable of. Probably because of our own spiritual devolution. Just speculating.

Try filling the gap with something else. If you clear out porn addiction but it comes back stronger I think it could be because something stronger but good needed to fill it’s place. Otherwise it coming back even stronger to fill the void it once inhabited is like clockwork. It’s expectable.

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I said just animals and people. Some of us have done well with utilizing plants, herbs and minerals. We don’t usually think of these things as tech but they’re just tech we didn’t make.

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If one accepts an all-powerful omnipresent god who created the creators (animals, humans), then the creation of his creation is also the creation of the god, perhaps?

Also, if the premise is of an omnipresent god, would anything happen without the will of this entity?

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Forget the blame game which ego likes, let’s address how you can overcome this.

Any addiction is ego’s way of compensating for its inability to get anything or all the things it wants. It is powerless against life so it will do what it can to abuse the body of its host through addictions. Winning over life is what matters to ego.

Porn is a way to compensate for the love you never received while growing up to heal the trauma of not being loved, only superficially.

Together, it is a deadly combination. You will need to do whatever it takes to lower the ego’s hold on you and your life and then try to address the trauma for the lack of love.

It is an exploratory journey, what worked for others may not work for you, so read through the fields which can be tools for your healing process. Don’t beat yourself if you fall back to old ways but keep making efforts.

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Read this book

and start to meditate a lot, reflecting on your addiction and why it influences your life. Go really deep. Find a powerful reason to stop and do it. Realize your life would be much better off without it and start to create a new porn free reality for you. Remove every temptation from your phone for a while, use less social media.
It’s probable you’ll have to change your identity and become a new person. Embrace it. Find the root cause of your addiction and tackle it with fields. It’s easier than you think! Read the book and good luck

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i also wanted to share the easypeasy method.
Incredible book,must read

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Thanks, reading the pdf instantly helped me especially when he compared porn addiction/cravings to a little monster that wants to be fed.

I was like heck no, I’m starving you until you die. You ain’t getting food and energy from me lol.

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This is how I perceive it.

We are just vessels/fractals of the divine with His/Her archetypes operating through us, even if we modify them according to the will of our self and not the Self (capital S). Either way, even the ego is still an unfoldment of the divine and all we create is a creation of our Creator.

Even in the case of Asuras/Demons- they may have inverted their divinity, yet they’re still creations and modifications of divinity, therefore even what they create are creations of the divine too.

For by Him all things were created that are in heaven and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers . All things were created through Him and for Him. And He is before all things, and in Him all things consist.

Colossians 1 16:17

Think of computers or any technology and any invention for that matter. Where did the idea come from? It already existed in the world of archetypes (which are within), which stream down to the mind of man and he or she creates it physically. We are always receiving divine inspiration and ideas from “above”, even if we don’t realize it.

When you realize you are the I AM and the I AM is you, you realize even the cookies you just baked are a creation of God.

The primoridal origin (Greek- “Arche”) of all activity is God. :point_down:

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Glad it clicked right away. Use it whenever you have an urge and be mindful of what you think. Ask yourself if you’re actually horny or it’s just an artificial stimulus made up by your brain. Remember the number one enemy is porn: if you really have to masturbate, do it focusing on sensation alone. This isn’t written in the book but helps your brain to start dissociating being horny with pornography since you’re having an orgasm without it. If you’re really addicted you probably won’t be able at first, so just focus on “starving” that little monster for a while before trying. As soon as you’re able to masturbate without porn you’ll find that it’s a much healthier approach and you’re not going to need it as often as with pornography

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Yes, there is some origin in the primal centers of the brain but also we are being stimulated to masturbate by thought forms we have created during fantasy or from watching porn. The more we feed them, we give them a life of our own, and it continues to demand to be fed. So yea, masturbating without fantasy or porn and just focusing on the sensation is actually great advice for a starting point. You want to starve those thought forms/creatures.

Etheric Cord Cutter, Soul Restoration Core, and Internal Alchemical Crucible should help with this.

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This is why is so important to abstain watching for a while before attempting this. Otherwise you would risk to fantasize about the latest porn you watched and you want to avoid that :wink:

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Exactly.

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Agree entirely with Barry!

That said, I am open to other views as well - I mean God/God Consciousness is hardly conceptual/accessible through material senses and logic - so I guess all opinions are correct in their own way.

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Dude try sovereign subs subliminal to quit pmo. He has a free version on YouTube. I bought the gumroad version cause he had a lot of good feedback for this one
It’s been a little over a month and I’ve had my longest streaks without pmo. It’s like the cord gets cut. I feel confident that I can quit for good
Another tip I can give you… Lol is don’t let yourself get bored or browse insta or anywhere there’s hot girls. Find some way to be busy
Good luck

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Nah bro no one is loving porn only fools and idiots
Porn is manipulating it is like heroin to our brain.

You cant just say something like that it is the same as you would say to a heroin junky “if you love heroin accept it and dont stop till you understand”

That wouldnt be a good advice for the junky and either for people who have porn addictions because they dont really love it they love the feeling of escaping the reality and too feel good because they didnt received enough love in childhood or got abused etc.

I just cant accept self destroying behaviour even If I would love “it” there should be always space for some concsiousness about what we do and how it will influence our well being.

I cant say more because Im still learning but I recommend “The Easy Peasy Way” too its a great book.

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Use the “Attract love” (as frequent as you can) field along with the “the Alchemical Revision of Childhood”.

You’ll attract more love into your life, you’ll attract the kindness of people you meet and hopefully you find true love in a partner (if you have a partner they will become more loving or they will disappear from your life). True love exists and it helps with everything, trust me.

I recommend “The Easy Peasy Way” too, as it can help with the brainwashing around porn addiction (read it in one sitting, and by the end you’ll just give it up - it really works).

But then you’ll need love and insights about your childhood upbringing to keep you going!

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I just forgot that everyone is at different growth phase. And that loving and accepting might not work at certain things at certain paths of their life as the oneness of “bad things” isnt fully understood.
I do get confused a lot too.
My bad. And i do see that things i said might cause more harm than good and I deeply apologise.

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