Hello!
I get you. Some of my family is quite selfish and in the dark as well.
I just accepted it as part of “reality”, and I just let them be them while I be me.
I avoid serious discussions/conversations with most people, and I just stick to the few interfaces we can connect through. The Four Agreements is a good book that may upgrade your mindset to deal with such things more easily.
As for LOA, getting a job, etc.
Ensure to practice conviction from a place of true love and compassion. NOT despair or desire.
Also, doing it from a Self Realized mindset may open doors to divine aid as well.
David R Hawking’s Levels of Consciousness may give you more perspective, but long story short: give instead of getting. When you’re “getting” you are vibrating with the illusion of lack. But if you’re giving, then you have it.
So, focus your mind on what you can give to the world and do your visualization with that mindset. Forget about “getting” a job.
Good luck!