Yes.
100%
He’s not your friend.
He loves everyone the same, he wants to help.
But he is not your daddy, he doesn’t owe you anything.
Find some friends, build your own social life.
It’s not just you, there is a big obsession on daddy Dream around here.
He love you enough to spend his time making fields for people. But there’s only one of him.
It can easily turn into a cult and that’s probably why he keep some distance, otherwise people would erase themselves and treat him like the supreme source of authority or intimate enabler.
Use the emotional support field
You know the expression “you saw me on TV, but I’m not your friend”. You know stuff about him and you feel close, but you’re not.
Nothing wrong with that. We are adults here. He contributes to the society, he does the charity work. He can’t be friend with the 200k subscribers.
“There’s thousands of you, there’s only one of me”- Kanye West
It’s a common problem when you’re famous, that’s the downside, asymmetrical relationship you can’t avoid when you deal in public.
You know him as Dreamweaver, Dream, Captain Nemo, you can make a few joke etc…
But you’re not using his real name, visiting him for Christmas or BBQs. You don’t have that type of link.
That Dreamweaver identity is a way for him to compartmentalize and protect himself from people invading his privacy.
To be clear, you can be kinda close, you can share some stuff, he genuinely likes people… but what kind of relationship you want with him ?
What do you bring to the table that his other friends he’s had for years or decades before sapien med can’t bring ?
You only need/ can have so many homies/ close friends.
Asking questions and requests, is more like a teaching job than a friendship and the field are enough to help, if it’s not clear to you, someone else always shows up