Law of attraction to attract my ex

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#1

how can i use the law of attraction to make my ex come back?

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#2

Dont bother with it.
Use it to attract ideal partner/soulmate instead.
Obsessing over one person is not really worth it.
If Your ex is Your soulmate tho, You will attract her/him
But maybe there is someone who is better match for You waiting to get to Your life.
Best of luck Friend :smiley:

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#3

yeah you are right thanks

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#4

i agree, what i do is write down a list of personality traits and physical characteristics im looking for in a partner.

then i start meeting new people and refer to my list every once in awhile.

what matters to me is how i feel and how they make me feel. bonus points if i rarely think around them and just have a silent mind.

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#5

From the book “The Game of Life and How to Play it”

Pray or Affirm something like this:

“Let me have (Your Ex’s Name here) as my (girl/boyfriend wife/husband/partner) or someone even better”

or “someone I’m even happier with”
“someone I like even more”

Now feel like it is done. You are sure even in your emotions that a benevolent someone or something is fully willing and able to do this for you. You are sure that it is done. You feel the joy of having this person or someone that makes you even happier than they did.

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#6

So you’re saying that it’s actually not a good thing to think about that person a lot?

#7

No, because you’re feeding them your energy. They have “enough”, won’t miss you.
Use etheric cord cutter and see how they try to come back and try to get that energy flowing their way again.

But if you need to work really hard to get someone, maybe you shouldn’t be with them. And if it’s an ex, do you really think you two will be vibing after whatever happened ? It won’t go back to the way it was.
Like everything else, relationships only go forward.

Edit: Just to be clear, you can think about people, especially if you like them. But if it’s in a desperate worshipping way to get someone who’s not that into you… you’re pushing them away.

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#8

Thanks for the quick response, that makes a lot of sense. But in my case, it is a girl that I like, not my ex, who I am pursuing. Is it still better to detach and not think about her?

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#9

Yeah, I edited right after

It shouldn’t feel like an obligation to be together or your world will collapse and you won’t find anyone better lol

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#10

Great. I’ll update you when we’re together!

#11

Basically my experience after I read this comment & listened… not sure if coincidence

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#12

Hahaha, 2nd chick hitting me up…

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#13

Everyone should use this field regularly imo

Just a word of advice… if they’re contacting you because of this, it’s better to “cut the cord” so to speak.

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#14

Ya you got a point

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#16

It seems that Mr. Philip after the specialization in the brain, is also taking that of relationships, great!

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#17

@DR_MANHATTAN answered this exactly!

my experiences have been similar. i am the one that usually thinks of my crush, but then i get more tired and my mood gets lower.

they definitely don’t reach out to me unless i’m enjoying my own life.

it’s fun and a struggle changing my mindset on this, but it really is worth it!

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#18

It’s happened to me a few times. Any time I use a cord cutting hypnosis or field, or soul fragments field, etc. Someone tries to contact me. Someone unhealthy. Don’t miss the sign guys. If someone only needs to re-establish a connection with you once you no longer are hurting over them… that’s all they want is to get you hurting for them again.

The above is not the same as a new healthy person becoming interested in entering your life once you are already enjoying your life.

But if it’s an old person wanting to come back, think carefully, did they leave you because you stopped being able to enjoy life of your own accord? Or did they leave you after having sufficiently hurt or brought you down in some way? Do they want to come back because you learned how to enjoy life? Or because you removed some barb they left in you? Not everything is dark and negative but sometimes it is even while we’re imagining love and sunshine so be aware.

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#19

I really miss my ex but I should let go of it all. I know she’ll come back I’ll manifest it into reality! I don’t believe I want anybody else however.

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#20

I find that Abundance Mindset also works really well when trying to get over someone and stop thinking about them.

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#21

Welcome to our community @TRAVE

If you get tired of wanting this person back then please ask us for recommendations. Until then bless you in your path and free will.

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