aye
its a tool,
as long as you are deciding, then it is you ‘choosing’
people also mimic the mannerisms of people they emulate,
which goes along with NLP stuff i think.
Would you say they are being fake or real?
what truly is oneself ? if not the outcome of all the choices we make along our path.
Or are you of the mind that, some things you feel must be worked for on your own.