They are your most satisfying moments now because you overcome them.
Now, if you would find someone going through the exact same situation and the heavens open and you hear a voice telling you, you… since you already went through this hardships and overcome them, i am putting you back on that spot so you can help this person go through it all side by side and you teach them how you were able to endure and support all of it until you were able to solve it all.
Would you accept that happily?
Or would you help the person come out of it with the knowledge you acquired?
Believe one thing is for sure, if the person doesnt value saving time and pain through your help, life will meet with the person again and again until they learn what they need to.
People just need one, just one person, one opportunity, one perfect word, to ignite a good change, and that person does not need to be suffering to be able to help.
It does not need to stay in a suffering state to understand someone else’s suffering which is why i have a problem with that story.
I knew my purpose looooong time ago.
Since i was a child.
I struggled a lot half of my life in different ways, 90% of the time it was my choice! Ta dah!
If there is something i always felt was the intercession mixed with unconditional love, patience and trust from all the Universe, Gods and what not that might exist, and every time i fell on my knees upset and asking for light at the end of the tunnel, the answer was always the same:
“But you are your problem
The cause and the solution is within you waiting to be awaken, your inner powers are asleep”
And when i said 90% was on me, it could have been the effects of many things in the world but it was my fault not to raise above and use the abilities i knew i had.
Every time i grew and evolved was thanks to Masters and Guides that were there to light the path for me so i could remember where i come from and who i am underneath all the wrong.
Every single one of them (like Captain) inspired me, and gave me the push i needed.
None of them were suffering, i would have never paid attention to them to be someone to follow and learn from if they were in a bad place in their lives or telling me, just endure and accept and one day maybe youll be ok with struggle and survive.
And if it wasnt for them i would have stayed like a ball in the air bouncing back all over or come to realization very late in life for what? To die in peace? Nah, life is to enjoy it and to push others to enjoy it as well, and be one. A happy one.
Its a pitty the writer used the beautiful name of an Angel to justify his idea of you must suffer in order to fulfill your purpose. No Angel would do that. Keeping someone in pain to teach them something or to make sure they understand something.
Its my last comment on this cause we would keep going in circles my friend. At the end im happy we are here.