Can someone help me understand
In human terms
5 of cups
And
8 of cups in relationship reading?
I get those after meeting someone I think will be the one.
But then connection doesnt seem to be the same again after i pull those cards.
As if something nice is left behind.
sure.
i would think of different ways of understanding why these cards came out not having more context:
also i always do take into consideration if the cards are vertical on in reverse. how did they come out?
5 of cups if vertical:
context (a new relationship that felt/feels like might be the one)
this card general meaning is sorrow, disappointment, regret, focusing on what was lost instead of what is left: the card shows 3 cups down and 2 still up, so its like representing when the person (usually only one of the 2 involved) is just focused on the 3 cups down = the negative and painful aspects of a separation, break up, disappointment. instead of the 2 still standing which represent the positive lessons you could take from that experience, also those 2 may represent the love that still exists despite the situation however not acknowledging it in a hopeful way but more like the sting that is still very present because of it.
if it comes out reversed, it simply means that the person is moving on from those feelings, like is healing but still has some time to go before they feels whole again.
based on the context you gave, if things were “good/ok” between you two since its something new and feels like the one, it clearly means that one of the 2 is still very much grieving a past relationship (red flag) if vertical; if reversed, still healing but the pain and regret still present.
it also depends what you asked.
if asked for the future evolution or outcome of the relationship that is starting…uhm im sorry to be blunt but it means it will lead to that… sadness, regret, frustration, disappointment.
8 of cups:
general meaning when vertical card that shows when someone leaves a relationship still feeling love, but has decided the best is to break up or leave even when feelings are present because staying would hurt more and there are not possible solutions to work on so its like a “giving up even if i feel a lot” it could be temporarily but its a sure break up.
if its reverse only depending on the context, question and other cards that come with it could mean return from a break up, like an attempt at reconnecting, or that the person that left is finding hard to really move on.
in this scenario coming out with the 5 of cups, if both vertical it could mean that one of the 2 leaves/ghosts etc and the other remains hurt and disappointed… further in, i could say that the person that left got fed up about something the other one didnt do or something hurtful they repeatedly did that broke the camels back and thats why they left, while the other person then stays regretting what they did or didnt do and is focusing revisiting going over ehat happened again and again.
or that both cards can represent one person, which feels regretful, sad, hurt disappointed then decides to leave the relationship.
if both or one is reversed since it still shows current hurt then it means acceptance to what it is even if its painful.
again since this relationship is new and if you are asking about current state of it, it means one of the 2 or both is still grieving a loss from the past, still carrying feelings, still thinking about it etc
and if its for a future outcome then again it means that itll bring sorrow and disappointment and the relationship wont last, or a break up is near etc
but still i would need to know what the question was (you can PM if you dont want to say it here)
the only last thing considering what or how you felt in re of the relationship after pulling the cards, it can be a warning of how you would feel, it could be a reminder that you are still not healed from a previous relationship or it could be projecting the real current status of the other person.
hope that helps
The question is usually what they feel for me.
5 of cups.
And i.think, whwt will happen between us
8 of cups (but also with the one above)
But i get reverse 8 of cups when i get her number but she has a boyfriend.
Which makes me think she wanna leave him but cant. But thinks what if she did leave him for me.
Or also more so tarot predicting i will do something that will make them leave lol. And then it happens. And it feels just so natural lol.
“I’ve seen that before”
But its interesting that it keeps repeating. Getting those cards… meet someone, nothing happens.
5 of cups or 8 of cups
well, honestly based on what i know from you and the love past experiences youve shared around here i would venture to say that the cards are showing you that the story will repeat again because you still have not learned the real lessons (neglecting the 2 of cups still up) its either self sabotage, you always anticipating a wrong and disappointing outcome that then manifest or its making you actually feel what you WILL for sure feel since you seem not to integrate initial warnings but still get involved despite those warnings.
and every love story feels the one or intense or a big romance brewing but they turn out not to and as far as i remember maybe im wrong, it seems like its you always the one left grieving or dating unavailable people, and you remain disappointed yet not fixing/healing/solving/releasing what is within that attract them or cause you to interact with them or disregarding initial warnings, so id go as far as to say that YOU are actually the unavailable one not them they are just a reflection of your incomplete love offer.
remember: we accept the love we think we deserve.
we accept the love that will makes us feel good not having to change or grow much
we accept the love that compounds on old wounds so we dont have to face them
until you face them you will continue to accept the unavailable love you unconsciously offer too.
also ask yourself if you are romanticizing pain, tragedy, obstacles?
the one, the real one and ultimate person will never and i cant address this strongly enough… will never feel like any of it.
if you feel they are the one with the context and circumstances you mentioned then THIS IS NOT THE TIME. and they need inner work and healing (because why are they in a relationship that is not satisfactory? what you mean they cant leave the person? is she chained to a bed? i dont think so. she cant because she cant break the energetic emotional chains) therefore even if she is the one, shes not ready and if this encounter really is the ultimate final one THEN rest assured that getting to know you, will completely shatter her world and your love will free her and heal her and help her grow despite not being together, while you remain calm and together doing your part of getting ready for the future reunion, yes calm.
because if she is the one then you should feel the whole universe pure fulfilling love within you, you shall not feel sad, or anxious or anything like that, because that love finally entered your heart and that its enough.
it shall inspire you to focus on the personal work you have to do to be ready for when time is right.
if you dont feel any of that… she isnt the one or you got a lot of work to do before reuniting with her and so does she. focus on that then 
You are the one.
Who understands haha
I think you are very on point.
However
They are still the most compatible matches for me…
Even if she fucked up and aint ready.
At least we share something in common.
So i think the hard part is getting together.
To go through the pain of emotionally connecting. Instrad of ignoring thst there is something there. Which is obvious to both, but we dont share it due to fears.
But once done should be harmonic…
But we dont get to that point.
Cuz i dont say she cute 
.
Cuz if i do, then I feel…lke I will be trapped and ppssibly have a bond. Which means my Uranus freedom gone. Aka having to stand by the fact she cute, even if i wont feel that way soon.
And there is no thrill if everything goes smoothly.
As if i need to be the desperate chasing one, cuz if she is doing it then i am not into it that much
Hmm
Or is there perspective I dont see.
Because it feel most painful and impossible to go to the ones where it feels it will go well.
Hmmm
Maybe i should give it a go for a chance.
Ahh I get it…
I dont believe someone would ever like or love me lol.
ahh so crystal clear with you lol
let the next sht show begin 
cause you are not ready
Y’all just inspired me to ask about my relationships and it’s a unique reading. I got Justice in the near future 
5 of cups was right.
When i did come enar her, she was avoiding and turning away. Very bervous.
Now
She doesnt even register me
Or is it maybe becayse i have cloak of shadow?
But okay i guess i dont have feelings for her either lol
what i feel is that she is avoiding you on the contrary because your energy was too strong for her. it imtimidates her.