(softly, kindly) No, my friend, you don’t need to apologize…except maybe to you for beating up on yourself. I only know of 3 things which benefit from a good beating: rugs, heavy cream, egg whites. You’re not any of them, are you?
I hope you’re also all day everyday dedicating yourself to enjoying your life, because all of your life is happening now.
And I get it. There were [are?] huge chunks of my life where I focused on fixing “stuff”–in my right-now, in my past, in my relationships, in my career, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah–that I had forgot (or ignored) to live my life right now. One of my tricks (for whomever wants it) is making a habit of stopping and really contemplating, “What do I like about this moment right now?” (Or, if it’s a really crappy moment, “What sucks least in this moment now?”)
It doesn’t matter if you lost it. If you had it once before, you can accomplish it again. In fact, it’s even easier to accomplish it the second time around because now you know it’s possible for you. Heck, you managed to accomplish the oneness frequency when it was still “a fairy tale” to you that you had heard about from others. Think of how much easier it’ll be for you this time around when you know that you can do it.
(In my experience, my higher self doesn’t kick me. It does the opposite. So, when I’m kicking myself [and I do] I know I’m on a plane that’s taking me away from the oneness frequency I want. Me, that’s my cue to find reasons to stop kicking myself. “Am I a rug? Heavy cream? Egg whites?..No? Must mean I’m not really benefiting all that much from my kicking myself. What do I want to do instead?”)
No, I wouldn’t be. I’m guilty of that as well. That’s how I knew the list of options to post above. ![]()
Me, I make peace with the fact that my chosen approach might (one of my fav words, BTW) give me more subtle experiences (so I’m going to have to really make sure my glass is half-full) or my “progress” might be less obvious or might take more time. Making peace is something I’m willing to do. Others will want to prioritize their lists. Still others will share their answers here with you.
That’s another reason why comparing my experiences with what others are getting isn’t so wise for me: we’re all different, with different issues, different priorities, different preferences, etc. We’re not apples-to-apples but a big beautiful fruit salad. (Now, I’m hungry…)


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I trust Capt
which is always how you use it in close proximity. With ONE eye. Or like when you peeping through a door’s peephole which is literally what is shown in the art.