Take it as a compliment. There is a place called Hell and it’s located in Norway. Hell means luck in Norwegian to. So if someone tells you to go to hell, just remember this, they are telling you to go to a “lucky” place without realizing it 
But on a serious note though. I keep hearing that in higher levels of consciousness the thinking is much different than that of 3D. Hopefully the example I said above will make it easier to change the thinking to a positive direction.
Personally I’m working on this myself “change the meaning to my liking” and I found one instead of being angry.
