It’s true. It’s the radar that needs no justification. It knows and that’s that and there’s no explaining it.
I listened to some podcast and the guy goes “really when you get to the basics we are very animalistic” yada yada you know what I mean - in terms that we primitively intuitive. And he goes on to say “I always tell my clients who have been in abusive relationships to go back and think and remember the red flag you ignored, because I guarantee you felt off and ignored it” and well if that isn’t the truest thing I ever heard in my life. We alway know… always.