The lesser diamonds album as a hole stack should do wonders before and why not after sex. i have written how to use it there.
my observations are such: today is very dificult (due to enviromental pollution, enteties, dark magic, influence from parents/friends) for a woman to be 100% sure that she is with and wants to be with her partner (most members of this forum excluded). When the man is intimate with his partner (woman), who is uncertain of the relationship then what happens is the man is drained and attacked from dark enteties. When the relationship in the eyes of the woman is real (and she is energetically healthy (also not so often)) sex (every form) should be a wonder and an empowering exprerience which gives also a spiritual protection against darkness. In todays world such thing to happen is not often.
The reason why there are not so many energeticaly healthy women is because the men of today are poorly educated have grotesque models to look up to, we have the sexualisation of everything and the bad food and ailments of today. That makes most men (excluding the members of the forum) really weak (speaking hormones, thoughts, emotions, energy) not matter how they look or behave physically. No matter the penis size. While the women follow the men, sense them energetically all of our communication goes to hell. The good thing is when a woman meets and likes healthy energetically man she will heal herself very quickly.
Casual sex is something different. We are animals also so there are other rules. That is why many men that go to paid service or have one night stands are really not that drained.
But intimacy in a relationship when both partners are healthy and want to really be with each other has alot more of energetical significance and is of course abhored from the society/ goverments/ school/our civilisation/ religion. Our civilsation lives and feeds on conflict…makes all the money of it. The more chaos, conflict and pain…the more money come from the friction.
In my observation before i sensed it the first that will be drained is CHI from the chest and not JING (only my personal observations, i felt it so). so i will recommend first the golden elexir then combining Chi(both of them two loops) and then one time Ojas after sex.
Enough said for now.