Hello, so I have seen posts related to protecting from psychopath, but does anyone suggest a field that would work best to heal psychopathy and maybe even narcissism? My son has’t been officially diagnosed yet but my gut tells me he has this or something very similar. I would like suggestions for only 1 or 2 fields that might help the best.
Below are characteristics of psychopathy:
superficial charm, high intelligence, poor judgment and failure to learn from experience, pathological egocentricity and incapacity for love, lack of remorse or shame, impulsivity, grandiose sense of self-worth, pathological lying, manipulative behavior, poor self-control, promiscuous sexual behavior, juvenile delinquency, and criminal versatility, among others.
Yes he is 16. We adopted him at 11. His biological mother has bipolar Schizophrenia. We have appt with therapist set up and he was in therapy prior. It was suggested that he likely has a personality disorder and to wait until he is older to get him tested since it will then go on his record. He was addicted ti porn since 9 and gaming since 4. When we got him we reintroduced him to childhood and outside play etc. He exhibits about 90% of the symptoms listed above with major exception of high intelligence. He is a pathological liar, changes friend groups every few months because he manipulates and takes advance of everyone. He has no regrets and doesn’t care about what he does. Indicates he has friends but doesn’t care about them or care to learn. He loves playing the vitctim to get attention from anyone he can. He is extremely manipulative and impulsive and never ever ever learns from his mistakes. He breaks the rules and breaks into places, gets caught and doesn’t care but gets mad he gets punished. Now he is slightly showing aggression and pushed me slightly. Not a huge deal but makes one a bit nervous. Ran away with no shoes on and ran for 2 hours straight until cops got him. And when reflecting back on the situation, he has no regrets and is mad at the cops. That is a sample of 5 years of this behavior slowing morphing into something bigger
Sorry but psychopathy has no cure they are born not made. It is a life his higher self chose best you can do is don’t keep dangerous things around him and may be use PTSD and Trauma Release and Healing to heal the genetic trauma although not sure it would work.
If you really want a totally different person you can use Neville Goddard’s methods but the psychopath kid will be there somewhere just not in your life.
Well, i think the best you can do is get him listening to the social bonder field with a booster like valhalla vial to develop those empathetic and prosocial traits
I have wondered if EFT tapping would help the trauma and emotional aspects. But honestly…I am sleeping in my room with my door locked. My husband is gone for work for 2 months and my other son said he saw his bother sit on the edge if the bed and clench his fists and his face was beet red in rage. So yes…maybe it can’t be healed but not all psychopaths are aggressive right?
Thank you…that is at least a start. I have blueprint of life that I also wondered if it would help, but if this is what his higher self chose then I guess this entire conversation is pointless.
Do you think the brain regeneration field would work better than the amygdala field? I already use angelic intercession for myself but good idea for him and the atmosphere.
Sigh. Thanks for your help! Yes we will know the diagnosis soon but I just want better for him even though I am at the point of not wanting him in my home. He is hurting the family dynamics and impacting my other children. I wish life wasn’t so complicated for the people that try so hard to make it better. But thank you for your reply!
Sorry can’t be of much help but this is how higher self creates life themes to grow, a family of saints will have one psychopath to ruin them, it is not an easy life but higher self doesn’t care except growth at any cost.
no, it’s a huge deal.
I assume you can’t give him back.
If you have to sleep with your door locked, that says it all. Psychopathy is not a recognized diagnostic, it’s not used. Instead he will be “diagnosed” on the anti-social personality disorder spectrum. That benefits you or him in no way except for the fact that it might be beneficial legally to have a paper-trail but that’s it.
It doesn’t matter how or what he’s labelled. The kid is trouble for you and your children. His presence will have a negative effect on your biological children. He is changing the status quo, exposing them to bad behavior and soon enough they will realize that they can get away with doing more bad things then they initially thought, then it’s probable that they will feel cheated that they have to restrain themselves and be civilized. Sadly good children don’t corrupt bad children into being good, it’s the other way around.
he is traumatized and on hardcore survival mode, him against the world. He has internalized hardcore power dynamics and ruthlessness. It takes a while time to reach that point.
First thing first.
You should have some protection, either a man in the house or if you can’t, then ship him out to somewhere, anywhere that will accept him. You engaging with the system is good, you will likely have the option to ship him to some Arkham or somewhere else.
You can’t just go and be nice with him to open his heart, likely he will interpret that as you being weak and seeking appeasement for your own selfish sake and that will only reinforce to him that his dominance is being rewarded by your submissive attitude (even if all you want is to help him).
As far as fields, Amygdala healing is a good start, be more kind and patient, that type of fields to create an opening in his mindset, social bonder too. I’m sure overtime it will wear him down. He will have to be domesticated at some point or another.
Reward and punishment. He doesn’t feel the pain of guilt, shame etc. Because these are too sophisticated for him. He’s on survival, barebone emotional support. That still leaves more physical types of pain. Once he submits to a higher authority (not talking god), appeasement and bonding will work. Him accepting that you have the strength and are the top dog and then making a peaceful gesture to him instead of crushing him is gonna be more effective then the prey energy of locked doors. Cause then, you’re not doing it selfishly or because he made you, since you are stronger. And he will want to emulate your because he is power hungry because he needs it for survival. But first he has to submit and more importantly he needs to know it without a doubt. Then because you raised your status, your approval and appreciation means more to him too.
If you are an inferior prey, then your affections is not worth much and he won’t activate his empathy.
Not to be sexist, but I’d tell the man of the house to get on it.
Also he is scared and over interpreting everything you do and say, looking for cues. Don’t let him sniff fear
If his mind doesn’t give him social/emotional pain when doing bad, another type of artificial, physical pain will have to do.
You don’t reward him being an asshole with understanding and love. He need to submit and challenge his identity to accept the new programming.
Also therapy might make him more manipulative and teach him the wrong kind of intellectual empathy, social expectations. Bad therapy does damage. That’s not even considering that he might just learn that it’s not his fault, he is a victim of his upbringing using whatever therapeutic device and label as a tool to justify his behavior.
Because of his low empathy he will project that onto you and assume you are the same. You can try to just be nice long enough but then he will always go back to the point where he has to accept that your intentions are good. That means trusting, which is a leap of faith and will appear painful and risky to him. He will go back to homeostasis. Maybe you will think a smarter way to make him submit but it will need pressure to overcome that.
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In-between the submission and rehabilitation part, if your husband handles him, then his submission will be conditional to the man’s presence. then he will likely want revenge on you if you’re alone again as he will still see you as the small dog.
Don’t go yourself fighting with a 16yo male bound to grow and develop more into prime military age. He knows that much. If he hits you once, the seal is broken. When he does submit, reward him.
It’s better to lock him up then lock yourself up. That’s a better dynamic. Also, your children are safer and you can move.
Also you can find self defense weapons, protection from worst case scenario and peace of mind for you, it will reflect on your attitude.
Blackmail would likely work if done right. You won’t need to compete on physical strength. Just figure out some good leverage. You want him to fear escalation without actually escalating yourself. He has to believe it. That’s his incentive to try to be nice. That’s his language, that’s like you kneeling to look a young child in the eye and establish rapport. It’s the psycho version of rapport.
Ohh and please don’t forget to clean your environment!!!
Unconditional Love Saturated Environment field should do wonders… Loop it all the time on a separate device 24/7
Having it low will eventually propagate it outwardly
But loud is better (unless it annoys him, have it loud at first at least and then lower it)
He will incorporate his environmental energies into his psyche more and more with time, so at least he’ll be more unconditional love orientated
During any outbreak, it will depattern his energies left behind
Those negative energies in the environment can indeed cause another outbreak…
A non stop environmental positive force will do wonders.
