Questions on friendship

I disagree and I think you are falling for the matrix’ trap of “false empathy” in my opinion.

Let me explain:

Look, if they would really have a “deep desire” to upgrade themselves, they would not behave in the way they behave.

They would be constantly looking for actual solutions for their problems, instead of just saying that they are looking for solutions.

If you “don’t know how”, then you simply start looking for solutions and try to learn “how”.

But that’s what most DON’T do!
They don’t know how AND they don’t look for solutions at the same time.
They have given up on looking for solutions BEFORE.
Which means they never really wanted it in the first place.

Those who really want to find solutions will necessarily stumble upon them sooner or later.

The universe or the Higher Self will always find a way to support a soul that wants to grow faster than it currently does! The universe is very supportive here.

I don’t really care about most of humanity because what they say that they want to do VERSUS what they actually do, is completely out of sync in most cases.
And I will not support this collective cognitive dissonance with my personal energy.

If everyone would really work together, like those souls who actually want to make things better, then humanity would already be living on Mars. But we aren’t. Because most people don’t really want to grow and go ahead. They just want to pass time and delay the process into eternity.

So no, most people do NOT want to improve themselves and do the work.
You really have to look at their actions instead of their words and superficial intentions.

With all respect bro, but I think you are protecting the lazy and the tire-kickers here with a false sense of empathy in my opinion.

In the end, you are running at risk of simply being used for your energy.
Because people can take from you infinitely.
Because laziness is designed to be a dead-end concept.

Therefore, and it is up to you to learn to discern WHO is actually aligned with your values and who isn’t.

Those who are aren’t are on their own path and trying to forcefully align yourself with them will only drain you of your energy and time!

I understand the subconscious desire of assuming that “if we all work hard together, we can make it”. But that is wishfull thinking from the Inner Child in my opinion.

The Inner Child wishes that “we could all be friends and support each other”.

And everyone says “we are family” and “in it together” – that is until the actual hard work needs to be done – then most are back to watching Netflix.

They say they do and they daydream that they do, but they actually don’t.

The proof is the numbers:

  • How many people go to the gym or look for solutions to be fit? Half of the world’s population is overweight.
  • How many people are afraid of death yet never research what comes after it? 99.9%+
  • How many people want to feel better yet never do basic research on psychology and potential healing solutions? 99%+
  • Etc.

There are really no excuses for most people in the age of internet and smartphones.
Pretty much everything can be learned if you really want to.

So yeah, “not knowing how” is just a lazy excuse.
Because you can always simply start looking for trying to figure out how.
And that is exactly what most people never do!

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