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Hi All, I don’t mean to offend but I am disturbed and upset about the image used to sell the Hyper Femininity item, it’s a female child sucking a large lollipop. I’m sorry, but what does a child sucking a lollipop have to do with femininity? It looks like the sexualixation od children. I find it an extremely odd choice and hope Sapien responds here. I love all his work but this is offensive and weird.
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Hi,
Saffia, i know you asked Dreamweaver to respond, but if i may, ill give you my perspective.
It is just that. A female child sucking a large lollipop. Nothing else.
It does not. You think that because that is how media has corrupted a simple child act to be something else.
If the image was to promote a porn movie, id be outraged myself. But what it means in this product and your judgment, ironically is exactly what the field is trying to give back to women.
The innocent act to be a natural hyper feminine in full expression WITHOUT being sexualized just because the world decided to associate our normal spontaneous behavior with similar looking mannerisms in the sexual line
And exactly because of the judgmental eyes around women, we’ve had to shy inwards and repress our powerful essence to convey the way others think should be so.
Just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder, judgment is in the mind of the spectator.
I think the image is absolutely perfect, it rounds exactly what needs so bad to be returned to women: the soft, graceful, playful nature that has been robbed from Us.
“Quintessence of Hyper Feminity” is the perfect state every single woman from when she is born until she dies should be in, its her right, and she shouldnt have to be careful not to or how to eat a large lollipop, or a banana while exuding her essence when she is remotely or not at all thinking anything sexual.
And i know your concern is because
The child sucking a lollipop has nothing to do with feminity.
The child sucking a lollipop with a playful expression while sucking *seen with perverted eyes and dirty minds by others is why women from very little have lost our right to our feminity.
Thats why she is here representing where it all went wrong, where feminity got robbed.
And where it should return.
Thats the best gift Dream is giving back to women through this field.
I invite you to get this field and reclaim your birth right and dare others to judge what is nothing more than a little girl sucking a lollipop.
Also hyper feminity has been severly corrupted by a lot of women that are using it to gain everything just by taking advantage of their looks.
Yep unfortunately a lot of women have contributed to it but why tho?
Because they were sexualized when they were a child.
Lets go back to where all began and make it right again
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Well honestly, both images are just that as said above.
At least nobody said anything about the boy being bare chested.
Yet i guess.
Well anyways. I personally feel judged or offended. I see nothing sexual in the image.
If you you are looking at a simple image and seeing that then, it is yourself or your environment influencing those ideas.
And there are no subtle references, in fact you will notice her tongue is not there, this was done also specifically, because people associate.
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anyways
took it as an opportunity to make something better
and more fitting.
hope you like the new one
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I completely agree with @Lunamoon22 on the picture. The picture is about innocence. If someone sees something sexual in that picture then it is the person’s perverted perception.
I also don’t like it when Dream is pushed to remake something just because a sexually traumatized person with a distorted perception makes a comment… 
@Saffia
Please take a look at this field. I highly recommend you use it:
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I also don’t think it sets a good precedent, also I liked the previous one a little better 
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Same here. The girl in the first version looked much happier.
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As a woman, I never once thought a lollipop in a child’s mouth could be conveyed for something else. Now I find that weird. That’s like saying anything in a child or a woman’s mouth can be conveyed for something else. I think it’s about who or what company you’re in which could trigger such a perspective.
Dream is a chivalrous man. A gentleman. He walks a path of integrity, so please; he would never ever hold an intention like that.
Now of course he’s going to change it… but hey, you have no right to call him out like this on a public forum; he didn’t even do anything. Moreover
There is a way to voice opinions; this is not how it’s done.
Let’s try to honor our feminine power more; and honor the creative energy which brilliantly streams through Dream —an energy that is completely pure.
Please 
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At first glance when I saw the images of both the boy and the girl for this series, I felt a kind of gross sensation in me. Similar to what is being shared here. I definitely did not think of it as any wrongdoing by Dream or team. I realize that with all the disgusting things happening in the world, our views, at an extremely subtle and deep level, are grossly skewed from reality. We have been systematically programmed across so many ideas in efforts to keep us from realizing our true potential.
When I saw the images and had this reaction, I caught myself. I realize that I have lost innocence in me by the things I’ve seen in the world and told to believe as true. I have fear about what is happening to our youth and both genders - and that fear translated as something that is not the reality.
I appreciate all these posts and Dreams response because it clarified what is inside me that needs to heal. And I think among different topics, we all have some skewed ideas about various things that may not be the truest reality. These last few posts are an eye opener of why all of these fields are so important to help us reset to reality, not the created illusion we’ve been led to believe.
Lots of love to everyone on their own individual journeys here. At the end of the day we are all sharing our thoughts/feelings because of this love. At the deepest level it’s all just love 
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When I first saw the picture of a little girl with lollipop, I thought “Why a little girl with lollipop is related to hyper femininity???”, yes I had ??? in my brain, but never thought of sexual related thing.
Now some people state here a little girl with lollipop represents innocence, (which I assume is related to the field?), in that point, it does make sense
Hyper femininity energy kinda reminds me of “matured women”, so matured women and a little girl didn’t link in me. But if the essence of this field brings us child-like innocence back, that’s understandable.
Just my thought.
Maybe concept of this field isn’t understood well among us??
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Children represent purity and idealistic aspirations.
The field centers around pure energy from the depth of your feminine core to make you an ideal hyper woman which children also aspire to become instinctively as they haven’t been soiled yet.
The beauty of the original pictures is you can tell their strong “primitive” as in natural feminine masculine tendencies and you get a glimpse of what they’ll become. The future is not certain but you can see their core.
You can see inside them. Knowing how Dream things in concepts and is often not seeing the worst in things like many of us do, it makes sense too.
She is happy and takes care of herself (with a treat, she loves herself and isn’t afraid of being judged or fat or anything evil), she nurture herself and she looks at other with a pure kindness.
The boy is young and pure too, but he wants to become big and strong also an evolutionary inclination, what he sees as cool is a simulation of him becoming a warrior/protector/provider.
That’s my 2 minute take on it.
Maybe it wasn’t meant to be overanalyzed, it was just a little girl biting into a big round lollipop that wasn’t even of phallic proportions.
It says more about what some people have been doing with their mouthes or watching at this point
I didn’t think of anything kinky, but also I never used my mouth that way
Ahem
It’s an artistic rendering, it can mean many things to many people, each one being subjective. This one didn’t rock, Dream changed it least he be called a predator.
Back to normal life
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It could be that Saffia is a parent, and has a young child.
In that case her mind would be trained to think that way due to her being protective of her young children.
I cant be sure, just giving another possible reason for her thinking that way.
I myself like the old time “black and white” photos.
There is an old photo somewhere of my brother looking like the way the young boy is posing in one of P’s masculinity fields…
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Makes sense
Fair enough
Wait who is Saffia I replied to Candy
Oh, yeah
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See, your answer is always perfect, Dr Manhattan 
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Say it like this: a child who eats candy. And the whole sexualized context is immediately lost.
I really like this girl with a candy. It resonates with me. She smiles at me and sends greetings from the time when I was a little girl myself. It’s a pity that the Dream had to go along with the prejudices and replace the image
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super interested to hear how this field effects the ones who already got it,
I am thinking about coupling it with Womanly Woman soon (WW wonder woman 
)
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I don’t know if it’s Womanly woman or this field but I’m feeling more comfortable in my skin. I feel more confidence. My choices are mine and I don’t need to explain it to anyone or make excuses. There is a feeling of being grounded. I want to embrace my femininity more without feeling like I want to hide so I don’t become a target for negativity.
More to follow…
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Yeah I have an old pic like that with my brother and my dad, all three posing like that 
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Whoever is using this, any update?
@Starlight
Otherwise I got a bit lost in the “other” convo to figure out who actually got it lol
I only used it a few times, so far I can say I need to take is a bit slow because this field is short but I think very strong, leaves me needing to ground after a few loops.
I’ll wait a couple of weeks with a proper review
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