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#22

Are most guys betas ?
sure
are most girls abusing it to get attention for themselves like vampires ?
sure

But it depends on what you want from a woman really…

I’m not advocating for anything, but some people don’t want to have deep meaningful conversations. They want to ride the horse and go home.

Depends on your needs, not everyone wants a soulmate and half-life symbiote

Same for ladies.

Also, lot of aggression these days on the forum

PS: to all the guys who say “most girls are bitches, a real man wants a self-sufficient lady”.

How many self-sufficient ladies do you know and meet ?
Like if you start with that attitude, how many good girls do you meet ?
How many do you need to offset your views of the world and makes you less desperate ?

Maybe you just don’t like women at all. Not that I would judge you.

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#23

Single :grin:

I do not wish to devote time and attention to a love story. Work, my projects on well-being and my studies on energy fields are my priorities.

I wouldn’t say no if there is a woman who thrills me for a passing love story :blush:.

However, there is only one woman to whom I cannot refuse a meeting and a intense romantic relationship. When the time is right and she speaks to me from the heart :heartbeat:.

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#24

This is the most important point imo.
The entire mindset behind it has to be in order.
Before i healed I’d say i met exactly zero of those self sufficient ones, maybe one.
Only afterwards i found that not only are they there, but also clearly the obvious choices.

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#25

^^^

I feel like guys that degrade girls (call them bitches or whatever) have a lot of healing to do themselves before they’re able to see there’s actually an abundance of self sufficient, beautiful, respectable women out there man

And i can’t wait for the collective to stop caring about being alpha or sigma or whatever, and just be themselves lol

If you wanna be a “real man” stop caring about being alpha, stop caring about who’s beta who’s not, focus on yourself, be yourself and respect women (and everyone) for they’re divine beings just like me and you

we’re all the same one collective consciousness at the end of the day, disrespecting some one else, is disrespecting yourself

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#26

i hope one day you find so much love within yourself
you only have the capacity to speak sweet words, especially when referring to others

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#27

Appreciate the constructive criticism. I just want to precise that I’m not trying to play it alpha man. I’m far away from that but I’m working on myself, like all of you guys. Excuse me if I sound mean. I’m respectful but when it comes to serious subjects, I talk real. No BS. I’m not trying to discriminate the females by saying the b word, neither males by saying betas. We all have our flaws and we’re working to improve ourselves.

Another time, my excuses if I offended someone by my words. I’ll try to be more diplomate the next time.

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#28

Heal and nourish your women with your unconditional love; do not keep destroying them while you destroy yourself

im single btw

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#29

I would have to add one more thing: self love, women need to do that (and all of us need that, that’s how our lives improve and find ways for improvement, through self love)!
But, I agree with @mauvaisgars that when it comes to dating, love isn’t the (only) solution, women are very very picky, after all it’s in our genes, men are (supposed to be) hunters, women like the strongest ones, but again, that’s only a model/way of viewing things, life is way too complex and I sincerely don’t have the answers, to anything …
Well, at the basis, it’s about survival and reproduction, that’s why women are picky, they want the best men possible (having one or more qualities, including good looks, health, strength, intelligence, humor, etc.) …

Violet, you also speak the truth!
The truth is very complex, it is subjective and objective and LIFE, it is what it is and is also what we make of it.

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#30

You want the truth or you want sweet/lovely words?

Love ain’t enough when you’re dealing with women. Status and money are more important than love (for them).

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#31

You’re killing me man :rofl:

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#32

sweet summer child ! that is true when playing in the matrix !

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#33

That’s “my” truth and I’m not afraid to speak it. I give unconditional love to my family only. When I’m dealing with women, I follow different rules.

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#34

I heard honesty was very attractive to woman, they like the truth :joy:

You have this going for yourself

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#35

Not this kind of honesty, bruh.

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#36

I know :rofl:

It’s better if your honesty match what they are looking for

Like everyone

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#37

I’m waiting for the counter-attack from female members of this community.

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#38

You think they will bother at this point ?

I’ll come back later just in case hehe

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#39

Mmmm, yes and no. Men tend to be more drawn to honest people even if it’s against them because we use logic more than emotions. I’m not saying that women don’t.

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#40

I wouldn’t know, I’m a sucker ahh

Bless your spirit

#41

Idk, just saying bro.

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