Hey family! Coming directly to the point i want some social advice from you all, if you know me then you must know i haved recently moved to a different country to start a new life and become someone important i am working towards my goal but the one and only thing where i suck is social life i have no friend here i am all alone so i have decided to go out every weekend alone in search of good friends and yeah a beautiful girlfriend i have enhanced my looks with the helps of field i am 6’2 too and get compliments from women too but i suck at striking conversation and i get too nervous when im out my anxiety gets worse which weakens my voice and thought process i am looking for a new personality and i want your help on what should i do and which field should i listen. Please drop your opinion and thanks for your time with much love 
- a happy lonely guy
dont seek a new personality, seek to accept the one you have. this is the only way
people are attracted most to authenticity, at least the types of people that matter
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I would consider looking into various brain fields. I don’t know if D to the O to the C (Dr Manhattan) is still around but I sense he would have a great answer for this question.
Good you moved and started a new life and getting success in some foreign land takes time whether it is making friends or getting a girlfriend.
Have you seen the last instalment of Equilazer series? Denzel goes to the same place in neighbourhood and has his usual tea everyday even though the barista offers to try coffee as it is Italy. Go to the same bar, a good one frequently, soon you will be friends with barkeep, girls who frequent will remember and talk to you more.
You can try Merry Maker which makes you have interesting conversations. You will be surprised to know tall people, people with model looks are shy too.
Good advice. And if you add to this JAAJ’s Daily Self Love Stack 2024, you will definitely notice changes both in yourself and around you.
Do you play any sports? Do you have any hobbies?
It can put a lot of pressure on you when you are out with the mission to strike up conversations and make new friends.
I would recommend activities that naturally bring you together with people and also the conversations happen naturally through this activities. This way the pressure to predominant on you and you are not forced to approach any strangers.
Ideas that come to mind:
- volunteer at a local place (shelter, soup kitchen, beach cleanup, etc.)
- Join a sports club, gym, or hiking/running club → group classes or sports with playing with others would be the better choice
- Look up local events that interest you then post it for example on Couch Surfing Events and ask others to join you
- Go to networking events
- Host an event yourself, like board game night at a restaurant or a hike (you could also post your own event and activities on Couchsurfing)
- Take a class at a local community center: language it cooking classes could be fun
- Train your social skills in temporary unusual settings: stay at a hostel for a couple of nights, sign up for a group trip in your own region
- Bumble BFF, and other platforms, even our forum here. I connected with other members through this forum. I also like to use the Couchsurfing Hangout feature. Please take some precautions when it comes to meeting strangers through online platforms.
Good luck and keep us posted about how it‘s going!
In addition to the great advice above, here are some fields that I think could help:
Confidence:
Extreme Self Confidence (Free),
Flight to Fight (NFT marketplace),
Knight Warrior Mindset (NFT marketplace).
Social Eloquence:
The Power of the Blarney Stone (Free),
Merry Maker (NFT marketplace).
My personal favorite is Merry Maker. It doesn’t help with confidence, but there is sort of a “social push”, that once you can initiate the conversation you will find yourself in a good flow. Also, this field makes you feel celebratory, joyous, even a little silly and playful like you want to joke around, and if you enjoy dancing, this somehow helps enhance your abilities!
Good article.
10 tips plus
27 How to enhance social skills. < which IMHO is more helpful.
Learning social skills is like learning most things, like how to ride a 2 wheeled bike or drive a car or play a sport decently.
PRACTISE.
A field will help but it won’t do the “leg work” for you.
Start small and work your way up.
you are correct bro, i realized that im good the way i am i mean yeah i might not be super social like some of the people but i am loved by my family the girls like me and i am doing good in my life so i dont need to impress everyone.