The Devastating Effects of Porn on Self-Worth and Manifestation

Spirituality
#48

Allow me first to make it clear that I’m not writing to encourage viewing porn. I still think our sexual energy can be used for more productive purposes. However, for the sake of being a little help;

The devastating effects of porn does not only originate from porn, but from your perception of it.
@JAAJ shared some very valuable info here, a special one being the levels of consciousness by David Hawkings.

Because most porn viewers consume porn at the level of desire to capture/possess the perceived, may it be actors, actions, or any experience alike, then the law of rhythm compensates; the viewer is captured/possessed by the desire. This is the divine pendulum at work.

Here’s a quick exercise for those that want to get out of the loop; do Ho’oponopono. Either while you’re captivated to consume porn next time, or simply on your own meditation before even coming to that moment.

  1. Think/view actors, scenes, positions, whatever fetishes that you desire.
  2. FEEL and say “I’m sorry I tried to possess you” + “Please forgive me”
  3. LET IT BE as it is, without desire to possess. Say “I love you” with the feeling of giving freedom to it, releasing your attachment.
  4. FEEL GRATITUDE for the freedom and detachment between you, and say “Thank you”.

Repeat this for your “favorite” actors, positions, fetishes, etc. and mean it. I say “mean it” because one must be sincere and feel the steps truly with a realization and acceptance of this truth. Doing it just to get out of “the devastating affects” may not be as effective although it would still work to an extent.

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#49

I’m a little sad to say this but I think you guys need to watch this video

from 1:56 to 2:11

This is actually worse than I thought…and unfortunately I have fallen into it for years. But I am still going strong 10+ days without PMO

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#50

…a reminder

Daily Energy transfer through sexual release to porn companies and their secret agendas:

Estimated 800,000,000 porn site visits and releases per day worldwide.
That is 10% of the world population (of these ca. 75% being men and 25% being women) and 17% of the people worldwide who have access to internet. The real numbers are probably higher!

Energy transfer/loss per release equals on average the amount of for 4 days of Jing reserves (pre-natal) and Jing/Chi/Shen accumulation (post-natal).

800 Mio x 4 days of Jing/Chi/Shen = 3.2 Billion days of Jing/Chi/Shen
= 8,767,123 YEARS of Jing/Chi/Shen lost and transferred.

PER DAY!

Do you know what they are doing with that manifestational energy?

Do not be part of manifesting someone else’s reality!

Use your energy to manifest YOUR reality.

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#52

@JAAJ let me tell you how one really loses energy and which energy do the dark creatures use…

the energy of conflict, turmoil, lack, and rejection and most importantly dissatisfaction feeds them well.

the conflict in one when he/she sees passionate sex on screen, when he/she because of outside/inside influences has no or bad intimate life is a great source of energy.

when one masturbates and is on this wave that i described, the energy from an orgasm while watching will be very quickly siffoned somewhere else.

in my reallity everything that is ill can be healed without rejecting it (real drugs not inculded)…

so my healing method is this: i sticked one repel negative energy mandala and one negative ion generatior mandala on my laptop 40 cm apart from each other.

this delt with my problems. Porn is a choice. the other things that happen arround it are not.

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#53

…this will wake some people up the harsh way :no_mouth:

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#54

nice!

well now that i think of this, it is so. especially for the subconcious brain. it is all the necessery programming to crush everything of value while giving you endorphins for a couple of seconds.

good catch @JAAJ

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#55

soft porn (tiktok and instagram) probably has the same effect too and you dont need to be alone to consume it !!

i love seeing beautiful women in my feed but it is damaging too

#56

I think part of the reason people watch porn or see nothing wrong with it is because without it they have a void in their sexuality, their “sex” life. Something that’s so primal and such a major part of you, but if it gets tainted, it sometimes hurts more to stop it and slowly become better when you can just go on your phone and quickly find something comforting in the moment yet so damaging long term. It feels like being on fire sometimes. All that energy and the part of your brain is craving it so hard thst you’ll do anything for it. Especially when the outer world seems devoid of sexual connection due to constant programming from porn. It’s like being a zombie. What’s the healthiest way to go about this, how to make powerful impressions on the internal world that the porn life is over and the newfound healthy sexuality is now the truth. Also because porn must make strong impressions on you due to how much you feel drawn to it. But at the same time you can let it go and it will vanish.

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#57

well yes they turn to porn because their sexual life is non existent but the root cause it porn itself because it makes them like to be non risk takers and yes you are right, it hurts to stop it because you are not good with your own-self, you’ll prefer being alone, not because you’re independent and comfortable w yourself but because you’re not able to connect with other people and they will sense this “desperate” vibe especially women.

They way to get over it is to face the facts: it makes you unable to being love and love yourself, people pleaser, desensitized individual and will even make you doubt your sexual orientation

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#58

what do you mean by manifesting someone else’s reality?

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#59

Manifestation requires energy.

You provide the energy and that energy is stolen and channeled away to manifest what someone else wants to manifest (instead of what you want to manifest for yourself).

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#60

Clearly I’m not going to waste my precious Energy anymore, especially now that I understand a little bit what forces there are at work behind “quick pleasure/release”.

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#61

That Story in the video is just amazing

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#62

Is erotica part of all this

Oh and
Erotica like actual love stories. Not 500 pages of sheer erotica; like a story with a legit plot, just erotica ends up being featured.
Like 50 Shades of Grey

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#63

there are particular creators like Erika Lust and others that mix sex with art…

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#64

Who really knows what is good and what is bad?

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#65

indeed.

Reminds me of this line from Gurbani (a sacred scripture)…

Ham nahi cha(n)ge, bura nahi koe |
I am not good, no one is bad

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#66

i really love this! No wonder why your name is Eternal Heart
I mean not for one to answer, just simply contemplate on

Your statement really made my day; you helped give me a rather important reassessing moment.

We get so engrossed in such minuet things we loose sight of what really is, on what we should really focus on

:white_heart:

Thanks

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#67

The name Eternal Heart is just to remind me of what I aspire to. Far from reaching it though.

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