in that context, I meant experience 
it’s not the only recommendation how to manifest, it’s a thoughts, the options to work with solidifier for optimal results.
There can be many of these options
we all explore different possibilities - and share them. I can only recommend that you make your own decisions and listen to yourself (heart) about what is best for you and how is best for you (and be creative and don’t rush)
Also, I don’t have the goal you’re asking about (to find partner), I am not a manifestation specialist, and before my tech-project, I used a simpler “wish-granting” scheme - just “make a wish list” and “let go”.
but if we want a little faster manifestation, maybe we need to look a little wider
I don’t know, maybe it looks complicated - but trying to understand some principles can help in the future
For example, if we are in a bad emotional state, we probably need to get ourselves in shape first before we can successfully manifest anything. We cannot swim in negativity and expect to attract good things into our lives. We need to readjust our condition and neutralize our stress
Also, some of us are still not ready to let in positive change
and it all has to do with our subconscious blocks I think.
accepting new things is a huge challenge for most people (especially older people). The older the age, the greater the challenge
in this “ritual” is important - the absence of doubt about the feasibility of it - a subtle sensitivity to insights - trust in the possibilities opening up.
(if we are talking about a ritual).
In the group we gave one example:
(yes, it may sound nice, but metaphorical language can also help in understanding)
We need to create the right space for the experience to originate. Manifestation is essentially experiencing something. When you want a rose to grow in your garden - it doesn’t just fall from the sky. You need soil, seeds, water and sunshine. All of this looks and smells very different than a rose. And yet, you need all of these things to create the environment in which the rose will grow. In the same way, we need to create and nurture the environment in which the experience will take place.
For example, if you want a girl/boyfriend who will treat you right/good - why are you connected to someone who doesn’t treat you “right,” why are you still hanging out with people who don’t treat you right, why aren’t you treating yourself right?
Well, she will change," you will say.
No, she won’t.
But there’s no one else.
Okay, so don’t be with anyone at this point, what’s the rush?
I met this example a long time ago on another resource:
someone is looking for love - a partner. The word “seeking” implies that they feel they don’t have it (there is a lack). Consequently, in manifestation, this “lack” is filled
But awareness is needed in this process; feeling, believing, and acting on what you want to “expand” (self-love)
Would this answer work for you to think about?
although probably can be recommended to maintain your energy system in various ways (Soul restoration, chakra series, aura cleansing, removing subconscious blocks, ect. This is important, manifestation is connected to our energy), and use “emotional visualization” in the process / ritual
and, I don’t use the word " command", which was very fashionable at the time of the discussions of the first servitors