Agree with @JAAJ in that to begin harnessing the law of attraction, you must first begin by clearing up limiting beliefs. Otherwise when you project what you want to attract, your mind will still be defaulted on the limiting belief of ‘why i don’t have what I want.’ For example, Bob want to attract money. But Bob believes he always has the worst luck whenever he tries to make money. This default belief is the frame from which Bob is trying to attract money. Your default beliefs genereate your day to day reality and in this case, will generate the subscribed reality of you having bad luck whenever you try to make money.
So I’d suggest following his advice on that. I just wanted to quickly speak about how law of attraction is quite logical. And not in the woo sense of energy and all that.
Moreso, that focusing on the positive outcome of a situation more, will increase the chances of manifesting it. By focusing on the positive outcome of getting what you want, your brain fills in the blanks of the patterns that it take to create that outcome for you. The problem is that most people tend to focus on the problem itself rather than the solution. That is just human nature and is very annoying. It’s best to grow enough to be resilient enough to the problem that we accept and acknowledge it and then just put all our focus on the solution. That focus will be lead to your mind finding multiple solutions and seeing opportunities when you go out in the world and meet new people or see different things.
The more you focus on something, the more your reality patterns itself around that focus. Your brain is processing all the information around you and so when it’s focused on the positive oucome of a goal, it will process information around you that alligns with that. Get it?
So although I highly recommend not skipping the self work of clearing the beliefs that keep you in these limited loops, you can still accomplish a lot more in your life when you assert your willpower and focus on the things you want, rather the things you don’t want and reject. Thinking positively about a situation or what you want to achieve, gives your body and mind the level of confidence, clear mind and willpower it needs to find the more preferable opportunities available and push torwards success. This naturally increases your chances of success. Thinking negatively just increases anxiety, fogs up the mind and decreases willpower towards achieving such things.
Many of us just default to fearing the worst possible outcomes and focusing on them. Fear is a powerful magnet back to our comfort zones whenever having to step outside of them. We have to… acknowledge the worst possible outcomes and accept that they might happen. In doing so, we aren’t rejecting all possibilities and our minds become more open and allow us to fully focus all our energy into a positive outcome.
Why? When we are in full rejection of the worst possible outcomes, no matter how much we try to think positively, our defaulted negative repressive energy of rejection is pulling us away from positivity. The possibilities that we most reject become the walls we can’t move past in our minds.