It’s in Turkish :) One of our good bands, even if this song is not their best. I’ve chosen it rather because the title can be translated as “The Song With the Cushion” and I was about to sleep 
Maybe I can find the song you’re mentioning if you approximately remember some of the lyrics?
You’re sweet :) Actually it doesn’t bother me. With or without Lilith, be it magazinish stuff or not, etc. the stereotypical Tauruses are renowned for these features. Sensual people, extremely guided by their senses. You give me for ex. something that smells nice in the middle of a fight? You can be sure that I’ll calm down immediately
It’s understandable. Actually that song above says something like “if you haven’t loved him, you would have died. But you’ve chosen to love him and you’re dead too” lol
Love in itself is not the trouble indeed. It’s more about what we decide to do with love and other useless spoily drama that we add into it, sadly. Stuff like “when I love, I become possessive; when I love, I act like an idiotic; when I love, I become prone to abuses”, etc. You see what I mean.
There’s this sister of mine who says:
This is also what matters in our approach towards love. Are we kind towards our love or the one displayed to us? It’s not about being a softy and using silky words 24/7. Some seemingly kind words can be extremely destructive, whereas some seemingly “brutal” attitudes can be proofs of extreme tenderness, etc. etc.
But here I am rambling Ruled by Venus, definitely ;))