Every time someone is struggling with results on this forum I notice they are always recommended fields to heal trauma and increase self love but why is that? Maybe the issue is something external not internal like their environment. Like me, I live with narcissistic parents and have no way of living by myself and I’m basically forced to deal with their negativity 24/7 alongside my siblings. I also have to hide my sexuality and pretend to be someone I’m not to match their views and avoid arguments. I also used to be physically abused throughout my childhood but it has stopped as I got older now it’s only verbal. What can I do in this situation?
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Many things but I think one of the most important factors is to accept the positive change fields bring more easily. Say you loath yourself you probably will have issues to accept the energies that make you feel happy for example.
For the other issue I’m sorry you had to go through that and I don’t have much of an advise but don’t try to change them change yourself. Change how you view yourself and yes love yourself. The chance that it’ll have a ripple effect to the outside world is big and more worthwhile than be in fight mode with what you think is outside of yourself.
Of course use things like repel negativity if it gets overwhelming and try to keep yourself clean from negative energies as they can drag you down. The thing is if you become more accepting of yourself these things can’t “stick” to yourself so easily anymore.
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And all of that has damaged you. And life is like a fight. How are you going to go fight with so many wounds already? That’s why we focus on healing trauma.
In your situation, a focus on shielding, repelling negativity and increasing vibration (specially of the ambience…it will make them uncomfortable going in your bedroom if it is very high vibe).
Learning every possible way to put a limit somehow (I know this is near impossible in families, and impossible if they are very psycho).
High vibes, detachment, etc will make you react less to all that and prevent further damage. It also makes them a bit allergic to you.
Try to be as far away from them as possible, and use intercessions and good luck fields daily. Focus on building a foundation to leave that place.
I’d do a lot of clearing (entity removal, exorcism, energy blocks, aura, salt, sage, etc). I’d also listen to the anger, guilt, and become more patient fields. If you use things to feel stronger (emperor, excalibur, testosterone) it may invite more aggression. So you need a mix of becoming more confident and powerful, but also more patient and understanding, it will help you to avoid problems.
This is another problem of living in such environments. You need to learn how a psycho thinks, just in order to be a step ahead of them and avoiding their bs all the time. This will then hurt you in your relationships, decisions you take, and everything. Life is a lot more neutral, it isn’t a psycho to hide from and outsmart…but those patterns will be ingrained by then.
Others may suggest that you use forgiveness fields. If you will, if your family is not totally psychopathic, maybe. But that sort of behaviour (even using attract more love) often times ends in you getting abused again, as they don’t know anything else.
So…use intercessions to get away from them. Then, you can use forgiveness all you want. You’ll heal. You won’t be dependent on them, so if they are still psychos, their loss. But now, you just have to survive and not turn into a psycho yourself in the process.
So I’d avoid fields that trigger you and even them (using fields will trigger them changing their behaviour towards you).
If anyone has other advice, I’m all ears too. Maybe there are fields that do make psychos become more supportive and cut down their bs and reflect on what they do.
For now, use shielding, angelic intercession (Sword of St. Michael is a good field for many things…will keep them behaving while interceding for you and giving you strength), and cord cutter (this may trigger them too…keep using it and aura cleaner).
Keep hose threads cut and the shields up. Get a servitor too, as it can protect you 24/7. And things for good luck that keep making things go your way.
You still have to do some self-forgiveness, self-love, self-cofidence, to be comfortable when you’re away from home. And basically, I’d be away from home all day long if possible, and just avoiding them, while you’re building a good future for yourself.
Focus on your health too, as all that will eventually impact it, and on brain fields. The smarter you are the less all this will affect you, the better chances of any plan you make to go well.
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Its because when you replace the term “self-love” with such terms as:
- trauma-free
- resilient
- happy
- positive
- free
the need for self-love becomes evident.
It tends to be the result of the internal situation. For instance, you can ask yourself, when was the last time you genuinely thought in a positive way about your parents?
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