That’s right. I was never comfortable doing this in the first place, which was why I revealed it in the end. Just like I would be extremely uncomfortable with telling someone that they had cancer. But does that mean I have to apologise for sharing uncomfortable news?
It was a morally ambiguous decision. I decided to err on the side of making a ‘wrong’ decision because I saw no other option.
If that has offended you in anyway, then I am truly sorry.