Just remember you have a value, they have a value.
If you are ok with providing her your value, helping her, making her feel safe, bringing her stability, you’re still young, I won’t mention money, but time and energy and lust.
And at the same time she isn’t giving you any real tangible value (because let’s face it, you don’t both get the same value out of talking).
That’s how simping works and it starts very small, it’s a long road to become an obvious simp. It’s an habit, a programming that grows over time. No one’s who is aware of that becomes a simp.
You internalize the mindset that it’s ok to provide without getting reciprocity from ladies. It will get wired in your brain.
That’s when self-respect comes into play. If you can just learn to walk away, that’s 50% of the levels unlocked.
And for your situation, understand that she doesn’t and will not respect you after what happened. You undervalued yourself and you showed that you didn’t have options. And you raised her self-worth leading to entitlement. I am worth more = I deserve more.
I stayed on it because it’s a global crisis at this point.
PS: The minute she gots her BF, he won’t like having you lurking around his woman, she’ll stop talking to you 100% of the time. Cause you know, she wants a man, just not you.
But don’t worry, she’ll need that self worth again when they break up, you’ll see her again.
go with the flow. Who knows? Maybe you’ll meet your love tommorrow, maybe it will happen over the course of months.